M&Odds

Kiddos, please stay safe. If you ever need a ride, just hit me up. You might have to way a day or so for me to show up, but I'll get to you.

I may be writing this for myself, but this is also for you, my kiddos. Take care of yourself! If you’re the type of person who continuously cares for other people a lot, not giving yourself this chance to reflect will lead you to feeling anxious and unhappy because everyone around you gets more attention than you do. So take control of what you can - your own self.

Take time to make yourself a cup of tea and call your best friend. They want to hear from you. I don’t care if you’ve been fighting, if you haven’t been talking in weeks, if you don’t know what to say, if you’ve spoken to them recently, make some tea, call your friend. Maybe do a face mask, paint your nails, relax, but have a chat with your bestie. They want to hear from you. This is your sign. And if you don’t have a best friend right now but you’re friends with someone and you want to have a conversation with them about literally anything then just give them a call or shoot them a text. This is your sign. They want to hear from you.

It sounds cliche, but better late than never!! Just remind yourself that when your brain has given up on being able to think, and there are a million assignments due tomorrow. 

If you go on a date be sure to write your blog post beforehand or your sister will throw shade from 2000 miles away. Alternatively, remember that dating is just one facet to your social life and while it’s totally fine for that person to be one of your best friends don’t forget the others in your life. Make plans, stick to them, and don’t be afraid to prioritize friends over dates when you need to.

It’s school time again, and here’s just a reminder that everyone gets busy doing their own thing. Please remember to message your friends every once in awhile though, because 1 in every 2 friends is afraid that they’re not actually friends and everything is just a huge joke! Just, from experience….