Respectful Larries and Larry Shippers

i was inspired to write this by the latest video of @shit-larries-say so thank you. The story is in many ways different to mine but it is also very similiar and it resonates on a deeply personal level. I’m really recent ex-larrie as in March this year. I first became a One Direction fan in 2010 after watching the seventh series of the X Factor I loved the boys straight away and Lirry were my favourites. I went on X Factor Tour, I put posters up on my wall etc. However I didn’t become a larrie straight away, in fact I didn’t become a larrie until july 2013. Before then I shipped Elounor and Payzer etc. However I was a larry shipper and I very much enjoyed fanfiction. The first fic I ever read was 99 Days Without You in November 2012. I became a larrie after I became curious about why they believed in larry so hard and why larry seemed distant. After hearing about ‘’Lou can I give you a blowjob?”, all the other innuendo, the You Just Have to Pay Attention Videos and tattoos, I was completely sold on larry and was shocked it wasn’t common knowledge. It seemed so obvious all the hearteyes, little touches, innuendo, tattoos, jealousy, outings, white paint in hair after halloween, jizz jeans etc etc. However as a larrie I awlays did have lots of doubts and Elounor always confused sometimes it seemed so legit and sometimes fake as fuck. I read a post about elounor in late 2013 and was super confused and started wondering if I was wrong. I shut down my doubts with larry youtube videos and masterposts etc. I wondered for a while if BOTH larry and elounor were real and if that even made sense but I didn’t like that theory and I dismissed it quickly. In 2014, I had loads of doubts again: when chokuhblock became a houie (thought they broke up) and other big larries at the time. However I saw how badly they were treated for their opinions and I didn’t fancy receiving the same treatment so I shut up and carried on larying, even though I started wondering myself if they’d broken up. Why did they go such long periods of time without seeing each other and why were they so distant on stage? I shut these thoughts down with the thought of the tttoos and strong. 2015 is the year, I nearly became an ex-larrie. When Louis was announced as a father, I was a mess for weeks, I cried everyday and avoided social contact. I left the fandom for a few weeks but then I came back. I kept going by thinking about the paternity test. I thought it would be over before Freddie was born. When he was born, I entertained the idea that Freddie was really louis’ and that larry was no longer real. I kept saying wait until the paternity test but it never came. As time went by I started playing around with different ideas in my head saying that maybe Louis was the father and that larry broke up (and maybe got back together) or that Freddie was larry’s child. I was afraid to leave the fandom or become a houie after the horrendous treatment of @scrufflecake and @allegedlymags, who were some of my fave larries. Fastforward to 2017, I was seriously considering that Freddie was Louis’ and could no longer bare babygate theories. After the LAX airport incidence with Elounor, it was the final straw for me and i concluded that freddie was louis’, louis wanted to be with eleanor whether their relationship was real or not and that larry were definitely not together. Eventually I concluded that Elounor is legit and always has been and larry have never been in a committed relationship. However I still stand by the idea that they have a history and something happened between them. I think their were feelings involved and they’ve slept together and that their ship and compass tattoos match but they’re not together Louis has chosen Eleanor. I had some help along the way. Talking to @debunkinglarry about Freddie really helped me realize the truth and @the-lourries offered alternative options that seemed really appealing to me. 

- RespectLourry

Buddha (via fyp-philosophy)

mini louis !!!!!

Excellent question! I call myself a soft anti because my approach is purely about getting people to accept Freddie and Bear and be kinder towards the girlfriends and ex-girlfriends and understand that they are NOT being forced on the men regardless of whether the relationship is real or not (I think they are real). That’s what I care about getting people to be more accepting of the men’s lives. I don’t care if someone believes in Larry or Ziam or do I care about tinhatting or debunking that’s for other antis to deal with. I’ll only reblog a debunk post for references especially if I myself thought the moment was real or to offer help to other ex-larries or fence sitters but I don’t debunk things myself very often. I might if I feel it’s necessary but otherwise I can’t be bothered with it? Does that help? Also I’m fine with houies and fencesitters I was one fairly recently so they’ll receive no judgement from me whatsoever I promise that. That’s how I differ from other antis. Preferably it would be good if people could accept that Elounor is real and Louis did have an affair with Briana it makes it easier but it will come in time if people can accept Freddie first that’s fantastic. 😊💖😘

Louis is NOT homophobic some of his friends are but he doesn’t evidently share their views. Please let this idea go. It’s hurtful and untrue.

No matter how many interviews they do or fans they meet, you are not their friend. You can be close to them in the way that fans are close to people they love and admire, but you do not truly know them, and you likely never will. Trying to force them to reveal the parts of themselves that they keep private by necessity is disrespectful and invasive.

brianasrealaccount: 🖤

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preachhhhhh