ā¼ļøImportant Message: Why I left the Frankie fandomā¼ļø
Just so you all know too if you havenāt seen my TikTok page yetā¦
I left the Finding Frankie fandom. Why? Itās become so toxic, your skin starts burning from miles away. And trust me, Iāve been burned bad.
It all started back in October 2025, when Mysterious Closet (creator of Kathy the Kangaroo) started to copy me and mocked me for having mental health issues. She said she wasnāt a bad person because of her religion, but I didnāt wanna give her any more credit for making my life less enjoyable. FYI; she still copies me until this day.
A few months later things were okay, some of my friends left the fandom but they still enjoyed my art. Back in February of this year I had a surgery, one I had been looking forward to for 3 years.
Sadly enough, one of my closest friends named Onyx on Discord (how ironic) decided to drop a bomb with lies about me being a groomer. I only learned this through the fact that Brenda reached out to me on Twitter and told me to check Discord ASAP.
I checked the app and Brenda told me everything, about who did it, about who believed it and who didnāt, and how one of the mods of the server named Moonberry was adding more lies about me being homophobic/ transphobic. Most of these accusations were proven false by the other two mods, and Onyxās claims were also proven false by proof I have provided.
For a short while everything seemed okay. I was still recovering from my surgery, eventually went back to my job and generally started picking up my life again, slowly but surely.
One day, after three weeks of running on three to five hours of sleep every night, Brenda texted me again and said I had to talk to Lucy. For those who donāt know Lucy: Sheās a 15 year old kid who hates it whenever someone has different Finding Frankie theories that arenāt the same as hers. And she likes to cancel people for having different ideas than hers.
I told Brenda many times I wasnāt interested in a conversation. Not with Lucy, not with anybody, because I needed some sleep. Badly. Brenda wouldnāt stop pressuring me into having the conversation, so I just gave in just to shut Brenda up.
She would tell me Lucy only wanted to hear my side of the story, so she could ātell everyone Iām not the villain.ā But boy was she wrong, because Lucy only wanted to hear the part where I āadmittedā I was a groomer. Which I wasnāt and will never be. Lucy wasnāt buying this and eventually convinced Brenda to block me everywhere just for the sake so nobody would think she was supporting me.
In the end, Lucy made the whole Discord server (which is about 10 active people) believe I was indeed a groomer. Nobody was interested in my side of the story. She even went as far as forcing a 13-year old to send me some pretty nasty messages. Those were never delivered because unless youāre in my server or friends with me on Discord, you canāt message me.
Itās now almost two months later since that happened, and everything seemed good after that. But right before I left that Frankie fandom, I found out why Onyx knew the exact time of my surgery: My best friend for more than a yearā¦ ThankYouDoggo. She was the only person who knew the time of my surgery. She was the only person who I had told about the surgery in more detail, and she was the only one who I talked about how I was healing. She knew everything. And abused my trust.
And so I left, and never looked back.
