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Je snad něco více saturninovského než pojmenovat sám sebe Saturnin?

#MŮJ NEJOBLÍBENĚJŠÍ HLAVOKÁKON V CELÉM VESMÍRU #kámošníci #trans saturnin činí tak 90% všech mých myšlenek #dává mi to hroznej smysl. je to hrozně správný na nějaký základní existenční úrovni #knižní i seriálovej saturnin #ale přivedla mne na to ta scéna ze seriálu kde jiří říká že markus aurelius je lvice #a saturnin se s podivně melancholickým výrazem dívá do prázdna #a odpoví. že nikdo není dokonalý. pane #a v tu chvíli jsem byl jako. jo. saturnin je trans. konec diskuze #pojmenoval jsem se po něm. teda. zatim ne oficielně. ale až budu moct. druhý je saturnin #ale prostě všichni historický trans lidi byli tak hrozně moc odvážní až je mi z toho do breku #až trochu bláznivě odvážní. ten typ lidí co by v poloprázdné kavárně nejenom koukal nebo přemýšlel. ale bombardoval lid koblihama #taky myslim že byl saturnin na chvíli u námořnictva. nebo minimálně vždycky chtěl být. proto to tetování #když se obléká do toho námořnického oblečku ve kterém poprvé uvítá jiřího na hausbótu #podívá se v zdrcadle na sebe s kapitánskou čepicí a na všechny jeho kotvy a usměje se #prostě tohle je hlavokánon co je mě přišitej a přilepenej izolepou a přitavenej a přirostl ke mě a nikdo mi to nevymluví #saturnin #zdeněk jirotka #trans #trans saturnin #česky #čumblr #obrození #to umčo je dost hrozný. to první je když jsem tam tak ňák naplácal barvy bez většího míchání a druhý je pokus o záchranu #která skončila jako docela vyblitej kekel. ale nevadí. něco na tom asi je #nějak #my art

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collectivenothingness

I have a disease called I want to text you so much but I have no idea what I would even write

normalbeing404

i have a similar one called i want more contact but I'm afraid I'm being overbearing so I'll just wait for you to start

landmineblogging

I have autism

the-quasar-hero

Come, you simply must meet my associates! This woman right here is a delightful pervert of sorts, and this fellow here, he’s some kind of a fucking idiot.

kosmogrl

pmamtraveller

"Waiting Gradually Eats The Soul"

by A.F. Vandevorst.

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tomb-mold

are shows and movies allowed to be subtle and ambiguous anymore..... is that still allowed or does everything have to be a patronizing hand holding session. just wondering

icecreamwithjackdaniels

Henriëtte Ronner-Knip (Dutch–Belgian, 1821–1909), "Study of Eleven Cats" (details), 1904

wetheurban

You will heal. You will create again. You will wake up genuinely excited about your life. You will laugh again. You will get out of survival mode. You will trust yourself again. You will get your spark back. You will find your way back to yourself. You will. You will. You will.

stealthrockdamage-deactivated20

"is it possible for a [thing] girl and a [different thing] boy to be in a relationship? 🥺" i'll stop you right there. get a notebook cause i'll only tell you once. men and women are not allowed to date each other

#inspektor Trachta diktující policejnímu praktikantu Hlaváčkovi

cannibalcaprine2

behold my family heirloom: extremely fragile keep reading button, please dont click it, it WILL shatter

whats your fucking problem

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i-suggest-aro

imagine if people actually took romantic consent seriously. wouldn't it be fucking awesome. i know they never will, but just. take a moment and imagine it with me

i-suggest-aro

no more "just give them a chance, maybe you'll end up liking them!", no more "if you're going to reject someone, at least apologize to them!", no more shaming people for breaking up/divorcing, no more demonizing people for rejecting other peoples' romantic advances, no more shoving romance in romance repulsed peoples' face on purpose to provoke us, no more "i know we agreed to just be friends with benefits, but i thought you were going to fall in love with me eventually!", no more "i can fix them" when the only thing "wrong" with them is that they want to fuck without dating.

wouldn't it be nice?

sorcererclow

A friend I used to hang out with every week once confessed his feelings for me, which I didn't reciprocate. I wanted to stay friends, didn't see why we couldn't, we had been friends the whole time without any romance, why did that have to change? but he decided to stop hanging out with me.

I was heartbroken and felt tossed aside. I didn't understand why our friendship wasn't worth anything to him if he couldn't have me romantically or sexually. I felt betrayed and dehumanised, like I didn't matter to him as a person but only as a romantic prospect.

When I told other friends about it, to my surprise they all sided with him. "He is heartbroken, it's hard to get rejected" even my THERAPIST said this. It's not like I didn't empathize with him, but wasn't I rejected too? No one else could see that but me, they placed me as some sort of villain that had power over him in that situation, when all I did was set a boundary between friendship and romance. All I did was not consent to the terms he wanted for our relationship, I rejected them, my terms were different and he rejected those.

I've had my heart broken by friends over and over and it hurt the same, if not more, than any romantic heartbreak. Why is friendship undervalued next to romantic feelings?

To be honest, to this day I'm still pissed that no one sided with me on this. There's so much unraveling that needs to get done around how we view different relationships in our lives, and I feel like most people can't even scratch the surface when it comes to this questioning.

i-suggest-aro

i desperately need people to stop avoiding what this post is actually about. stop derailing and trying to make it be about something else instead.

THIS POST IS ABOUT ROMANTIC CONSENT.

even if the person in question didn't want to fuck them, even if he just wanted a wholesome, purely romantic, nothing sexual at all relationship, it would STILL be fucked up to BLAME someone for rejecting that.

similarly, if someone really wanted to just fuck, but they were honest and clear about that, and handled rejection gracefully, there would be literally no issue with that.

when will you people understand what i thought i made incredibly fucking clear in the original post. the problem is not, and never was, the presence of potential sexual attraction. the problem is, and always has been, ignoring ROMANTIC CONSENT.

ollifree

#people think that relationships are made of two parts#one part being ~Love~ (when it is Real it is perfect and pure and incapable of harm)#and Lust (dangerous and only ever potentially safe when tamed by a high amount of Real Love)#and thus they can only imagine that harm done in or relating to a relationship#is because of a lack of Real (romantic) Love + the presence of Lust#also i say relationship instead of just romantic relationship#because i dont think allo society is actually that good at distinguishing between types of relationships#they don't really see friendships between people who could potentially date as its own form of relationship#as much as a liminal space waiting room between being strangers and being romantic#anyways it's so fucking annoying how insistently people think that romance is only harmful because either#the person doesn't Really Love You or they ONLY want to fuck you (inherently a shallow thing to want as well!)#amatonormativity has such a grip people genuinely struggle to imagine that genuine feelings of romantic love#can be anything other than inherently good and beneficial#op you are NOT overreacting people just don't fucking understand what it's like being aroallo#and they don't give us nearly as much grace as we deserve when we get frustrated with this shit

keeping @genderkoolaid's tags because they are Important

i-suggest-aro

you'll never believe. whose main blog that post was from. hi, it's me, tumblr user radioactive-yuri, formerly known as thermodynamic-comedian. this is my side blog. and a good few years ago, i made that very post on my main blog.

i have been fighting in these trenches. for YEARS.

damejoansutherland

side benefit of communal all-gender restrooms is that they may be our best chance to shame cis men into washing their hands

damejoansutherland

i was in a communal all-gender restroom today and as i was washing my hands a middle-aged man came out of one of the stalls, started to make for the door, clocked me standing at the sinks, and changed course to wash his hands with a real hangdog look on his face

aloyhh

I’m so grateful that so many things are none of my business

lamine-19

scientific fact

strangehorse

OCD recovery is cosmically unfair because it's the only disorder i know of where the treatment is 'okay! now make yourself feel worse'

strangehorse

depression recovery: go for a walk. eat some nice food. meet with a friend. be kind to yourself.

OCD recovery: okay, so it's very important to accept that we cannot definitively rule out that you are mega-hitler, and you may have caused 9/11

#if anyone knows a good therapist for this let me know 😭😭

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“start your free trial now” what if i told u i am already experiencing trials. and the cost is more than i can bear

wertfi-penguin

Maybe the most damming thing about Nolans odyssey is i haven’t seen a single gifset from it

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