IMPORTANT STUFF

1.) What is your favorite sex position? I love being bent over stuff. Like, you know, counters, chairs, cars. Whatever. Just bend me over.  2.) Do you prefer intermingling sex and scene work, or do you prefer keeping the two separate? Both are cool, I don’t mind having both at the same time.  3.) Do you enjoy quickies? Y e s.  4.) What is your dirtiest sexual fantasy? Being tied up for some time, blindfolded and gagged. And let two or three different people I like just do whatever within reason.  5.) Where is the weirdest place you’ve had sex? Someone’s parent’s bed.  6.) Where, on your body, is your favorite place to be touched? My lower back.  7.) What are your biggest turn ons? I like a lot of stuff, but some good old dirty talk. Lots of touching, teasing.  8.) Do you watch porn? Totally.  9.) What type of porn do you watch? I usually look for what I’m in the mood for that day, you know?  10.) How often do you masturbate? Very often.  

Some Winter pieces/outfits from the closet of yours truly. #OOTDs

1.) What is your favorite sex position? No favorites.  2.) Do you prefer intermingling sex and scene work, or do you prefer keeping the two separate? I’d rather keep them separate.  3.) Do you enjoy quickies? I don’t see the point.  4.) What is your dirtiest sexual fantasy? None.  5.) Where is the weirdest place you’ve had sex? The armory.  6.) Where, on your body, is your favorite place to be touched? Shoulders and arms.   7.) What are your biggest turn ons? Pro-activeness.  8.) Do you watch porn? No.  9.) What type of porn do you watch? I don’t.   10.) How often do you masturbate? Often enough. 

Before I begin, I want to make it known that this is OPTIONAL. I’m going to try to throw one of these up every week or so, and you’re free to do any of these optional challenges at any time. It doesn’t matter how long ago I posted the challenge prompt. You WILL want to tag them with sanctuary:challenge and you WILL want to @tdsimportant so that I am SURE to find it and reblog it. You can put these in your headcanon and the #ooc-optional-tasks channels in the Discord server too.

The TDS OPTIONAL CHALLENGE for this week is WINTER FASHION.

1. What is you middle name? James.  2. How old are you? 28. 3. When is your birthday? May 10th. 4. What is your zodiac sign? Taurus, I believe. 5. What is your favorite color? Blue. 6. What’s your lucky number? 8. 7. Do you have any pets? Not right now, but I do like cats.  8. Where are you from? The state of Colorado. 9. How tall are you? 183cm. 10. What shoe size are you? 13.

If you’re new to the idea of having a Submissive partner, then you might not know where to begin. You’ve seen how BDSM relationships play out, you’ve read the material I’ve posted, but when it comes to real life settings, that’s when things get tricky. You can’t instantly train a Sub. Training begins with a series of steps to create trust between you and your Submissive partner, a trust that turns into good behavior and mutual satisfaction in the BDSM aspects of your relationship. I will alternate between nouns when it comes to the Submissive partner, but know that this isn’t just about people with a Submissive mark- anyone that submits is applicable. Same for the Dominant partner.

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