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an author i love just tweeted about how âbig joy and small joy are the sameâ and how she was just as content the other night eating chocolate and cuddling her dog as she was on her Big Trip to new york and honestly. i think thatâs it. this morning i was listening to an audiobook while baking shortbread in my joggers and i realised i really didnât care what Big Things happened in my future as long as i could keep baking and reading at the weekend and maybe that is the kind of bar we have to set to guard ourselves against disappointment. just appreciate and cherish the mundane stuff and see everything else as a bonus.
found it - she was replying to this thread that starts âunpopular opinion: i donât think your life has to have a purpose, or you a grand ambition; i think itâs okay to just wander through life finding interesting things until you dieâ and i for one think thatâs fucking brilliant
âAll of a sudden two decades have passed and you still have not kissed anyone with tongue, or kissed anyone at all for that matter, or had a 3 AM conversation with someone who would rather look into your eyes for ten minutes straight than talk. You have never worn a loverâs sweater or âforgottenâ it at home in your bedroom just so you would have an excuse to see them again. You have never even stood face-to-face with someone who makes your hands shake so hard it feels like theyâre both having a separate anxiety attack. This causes you much guilt and self-blame and sadness but above all, an overwhelming curiosity. Are you really that ugly, that unwanted, that uninteresting, that boring, that no one, absolutely no one, has ever looked at you like the only thing on earth? The answer is no. The better answer is that someone out there, somewhere in the world, is âwondering what itâs like to meet someone like you,â and they have two decades worth of love stored in their veins like a shoot-âem-up drug, and theyâre just about ready to inject it into someone elseâs bloodstream. All you have to do is roll up your sleeves and wait for it to happen. At times you felt so lonely you could stand at the edge of a cliff with nothing beneath you but air and grass and a long, long way down, and youâd still feel emptier than that canyon itself. Maybe you even danced with yourself alone in your room a few times, arms outstretched around a ghost, pretending someone elseâs hands were on your waist, someone elseâs eyes boring into yours. Or maybe you fell temporarily in love with strangers on public transportation, fell in love with anybody who so much as accidentally brushed your hand on the way past. For you, falling in love with dozens of people a day was a coping mechanism for not having anyone to love you in return. But people are not eggs and falling in love with a dozen of them does not mean your shell will remain uncracked. One day youâre going to hit the point where youâre so desperate for human contact that youâre going to snap in half and all your love will bleed out like egg yolk. But someone out there is eating a bowl of Ramen noodles right now, or putting on slippers, or settling into bed. They are doing all the normal things that youâve done in your own life. They are just like you. They have cellulite and extra fat in all the wrong places and goals and fears and doubts and bad handwriting. The truth is that they are just like you, and being just like you, theyâre looking for a lover too. Theyâre what you might call a soulmate. They think theyâre all alone in feeling the way they do, but youâre really both two halves of a whole. And one day youâll meet them, bump into them on the street, and your two halves will be put together, and youâll make one.â
â Writings For Winter - For Twenty Year-Olds who have never been loved (via expiry)
I decided to create a masterpost that would help you with what you are struggling with. Hopefully any of the links below will help you! Reminder; Youâre going to be okay. What you are going through will pass, just remember to breathe.Â
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Distractions;
Here are some distractions to help keep your mind occupied so you arenât too focused on your thoughts.Â
-Draw something
-This website translates the time into colours.
-Create your own galaxy.
-Play flowing.
-Make a 3D line travel where ever you like.Â
-Listen to music.
-Calm.
-Ocean mood, do nothing for two minutes.
Sleep issues;Â
- 8 hour sleep music.
-Rainy mood.Â
-Meditation.
-Coping with nightmares.
-How to cope with nightmares, 11 steps.
-Calm
-Foods that can affect your sleeping, both positive and negatively.Â
 Uncomfortable with silence;Â
-Rainy mood.
-10 hours of rain and thunder.
-3 hours of rain and thunder.
-Human heartbeat.
-Rainforest.
-Sound of rain on a tin roof.
-Autumn wind.
-Rain on a tent
-Traffic in the rain.
-Soft traffic.Â
-Fan.
-Train.
-Simply noise.
-My noise.
-Rainy cafe.
Anxiety;Â
-How to stop worrying.Â
-Tips to manage anxiety and stress.
-The 10 best ever anxiety management techniques.Â
-Self-help strategies for anxiety.Â
-Helping a friend with anxiety.Â
-All about worrying.
-8 myths about anxiety.Â
Sad, angry and depressed/depression;Â
-âIâm always sadâ
-Feeling sad.
-Going through trauma.
-âIâm always angryâ.
-Anger management.Â
-All about anger.
-National helplines and websites.
-Self-help strategies for depression.
-Dealing with depression at work.
-Dealing with depression at school.
Isolation and loneliness;Â
-Pets and mental health.
-All about loneliness.Â
-âI feel so aloneâ
-10 more ideas to help with loneliness.Â
-How to deal with loneliness.
 Self-harm;
-Alternatives to self-harm and distraction techniques.
-146 things to do besides self-harm.
-More alternatives to self-harm.
-Self-harm alternatives.
-How to take care of self-harm wounds/injuries.
-Getting rid of scars. Â
Addiction;Â
-How to help a friend with a drug addiction.
-What is addiction?
-All about alcohol and addiction.
-The facts about drug addiction.
 Eating disorders;Â
-Helping a friend with an eating disorder.
-Eating disorder treatments.Â
-Support services for eating disorders.Â
-Self-help tips with eating disorders.
-Eating disorder recovery.Â
-Recovering from an eating disorder.Â
-100+ reasons to recover.Â
-Understanding and managing eating disorders.Â
 Dealing with self-hatred; Â
-3 ways to ease self-loathing.Â
-How to turn self-hatred into self-compassion.
-Self-hatred resources.
-10 step plan to deal with self-hate.Â
 Suicidal;Â
-International suicide hotlines (1)  (2)
-Preventing suicide.Â
-Reasons to stay alive.
-Dealing with suicidal thoughts and feelings.
-Coping with suicidal ideation. Â
 Schizophrenia;
-All about schizophrenia. Â
-Helping a person with schizophrenia. Â
-Understanding and dealing with schizophrenia. Â
-Delusions and hallucinations. Â
OCD;
-Managing your OCD at home.Â
-Overcoming OCD.
-How to cope with OCD.Â
-Strategies for dealing with the anxious moments.Â
Borderline personality disorder;Â
-Helping someone with BPD.Â
-All about personality disorders.
-Treatment for BPD.
Abuse;Â
-Healthy relationships VS abusive relationships.Â
-Emotional abuse
-Overcoming sexual abuse.Â
-Hotlines services.Â
-5 ways to escape an abusive relationship.Â
-Domestic violence support.Â
-Signs of an abusive relationship.Â
-What do to if youâre in an abusive relationship.Â
-Surviving abuse.Â
-What you can do if youâre sexual harassed.Â
-Sexual assault support.
-What to do if youâve been sexually assaulted or abused.Â
 Bullying;
-How to stand up against bullying.
-How to protect yourself when it comes to cyber bullying.
-How to help stop people bullying you.Â
 Loss and grief;Â
-How to cope with a suicide of a loved one.
-Grieving for a stranger.Â
-Common reactions to death.Â
-Working through grief.
(Other loss and grief)
-Moving away from friends and family.Â
-Coping with a breakup.
 Getting help;Â
-Seeking help early.Â
-All about psychological treatments.Â
-Types of help.
-All about age and confidentiality.Â
Things you need to remember;Â
- Donât stress about being fixed because youâre not broken.
-Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that youâre proud of yourself, even if youâre not.Â
- This is temporary. You wonât always feel like this.Â
-You are not alone.Â
-You are enough.Â
-You are important.Â
-You are worth it.Â
-You are strong.Â
-You are not a failure,Â
-Good people exist.Â
-Reaching out shows strength.Â
-Breathe.Â
-Donât listen to the thoughts that are not helping you.Â
-Give yourself credit.Â
-Donât be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones.Â
-Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend.Â
-Focus on the things you can change.Â
-Let go of toxic people.Â
-You donât need to hide, youâre allowed to feel the way you do.Â
-Try not to beat yourself up.Â
-Something is always happening, you donât want to miss out on whatâs going to happen next.Â
-You are not a bother.
-Your existence is more than your appearance.Â
-You are smart.Â
-You are loved.Â
-You are wanted.Â
-You are needed.Â
-Better days are coming.Â
-Just because your past is dark, doesnât mean your future isnât bright.Â
-You have more potential than you think.Â
- Your value doesnât decrease based on someoneâs inability to see your worth.
Please remember to look after yourself and know that you are more than worth it and you deserve to be happy. Keep smiling butterflies x
Season 4 Filming Update:
With the rumblings of production starting back up soon, curious eyes have been searching for any new information on the fourth seasonâs schedule. While exact dates are still subject to change, here is the rough #ST4 filming schedule to put some of your minds at ease. #StrangerThings4 is set to begin shooting NEXT WEEK! Production will be jetting off to Lithuania to begin shooting primarily (if not exclusively) at the LukiĹĄkÄs Prison in the countryâs capital. â â After an estimated one month in Europe, and a quick stop in Atlanta for the big table read, production will be headed off to⌠â â â â â â Albuquerque, New Mexico! Thatâs right, #StrangerThings is moving away from the Peach State (temporarily, at least) to film in the Southwestern United States. New Mexico is going to be a major filming hub this season, so expect to hear more from this area. Finally, at some point during production, the cast & crew will be headed back to Atlanta, Georgia to finish off whichever scenes they need completed in Stranger Thingsâ home state. As always, more info is to come. Stay tuned!- @strangerthingsfilmingÂ

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Dear 2020, please be good to me.
who gave oscar wilde permission to write stuff like âdeath must be so beautiful. to lie in the soft brown earth, with the grasses waving above oneâs head, and listen to silence. to have no yesterday, and no tomorrow. to forget time, to forgive life, to be at peace. you can help me. you can open for me the portals of deathâs house, for love is always with you, and love is stronger than death isâ with such ease? to touch my soul so casually? like who gave him all that talent and can i have some
please donât forget youâre loved. anxiety lies. people care. you are loved. Itâs ok.
âIâm 24 years old and play this game with myself: buy myself something delicious for the weekend, blueberry muffins or flaky croissants, and forget it by Friday. Saturday morning comes and I am lucky to know me. I wasnât born knowing how to love me, but Iâm learning now; catching up for lost time between us. I keep the windows open. I play oldies throughout every corner of my apartment. I tell the dog how good it feels, at least for today, at least for right now, to be alive.â
â Schuyler Peck, Canât Get Enough Of My Love (via schuylerpeck)

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Fidèle (May 2003âJanuary 2016), a Belgian yellow Labrador Retriever, made famous due to his habit of sleeping on a windowsill facing the Groenerei canal in Bruges, Belgium.
Bettyâs Reading Room
Located in Orkney, an archipelago off the North coast of Scotland, this remarkable yet unusual memorial was created by a couple as a fitting tribute for Betty, a late friend who died unexpectedly. The couple combined Bettyâs love of books and Orkney by converting a derelict cottage into a âreading room.â The aim was to encourage reading and to provide shelter for passengers waiting to catch the ferry to Rousay, whilst also keeping Bettyâs memory alive using what she loved the most, books.
2019 is gonna be all about the monstrous feminine. hereâs to keeping it feral, grotesque and unhinged, ladies đĽ
Kelly DeWitt

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âAnd, when it burns, / Let it burn.â
â Elizabeth Barrett Browning, from âCasa Guidi Windows,â c. 1851 (edited)