Taki.Ok

NCT's DOYOUNG and GONGMYUNG for W Korea May 2021

I didn’t feel empowered by “Call me by your name”. To me, it was such a weird story - I didn’t even finish the movie because it was honestly uncomfortable to watch for me. I just felt no connection to the characters at all and I really don’t get what’s so meaningful about the plot, either. 

Is the message of this post “That movie is not empowering to the lgbt+community”? No. That’d be a very silly thing to say - many people love that movie and feel empowered by it. They see a bit of themselves in one of the characters, the movie got them thinking about their own sexuality etc. 

The movie can empower you - and at the same time, it can mean nothing to me. Neither of us would be in the wrong here. 

In general, when it comes to lgbt+ characters or storylines, we can argue about good representation vs. bad representation. But empowerment and that feeling of “When I watch this movie, I feel better about myself” or “This movie helped my explore my sexuality”, that’s just so so subjective. 

It’s really hard to generalize and say that anything is empowering for the whole community. I’d even dare to say that it’s impossible to find such a thing - the lgbt+ community is made up of so many different people with their unique stories and feelings and tastes and struggles… how could ANY piece of media magically make all of us feel good? 

Don’t force yourself to find meaning in a movie you don’t relate to and don’t judge people for not feel inspired by a character that means the world to you. We will have different opinions on things, it’s normal. It doesn’t make either of us a bad person - it just means we are individuals! 

With all my love, 

https://youtu.be/BcA_p83ovAU

https://youtu.be/BcA_p83ovAU

Yes omg it’s so good 0-0 every one of you should watch this 0-0

the mold is white, naturally androgynous, non aligned, short hair, really skinny, afab, actively transitioning, identifing as trans, binding, pansexual or asexual, listening to indie or alt music, has a goblincore aesthetic, and maybe dyed hair.

let me clarify, if you fit this mold as a nonbinary person, you’re valid and you’re nonbinary. i’m not saying you aren’t.

i’m just saying if this is the ONLY type of nonbinary person you support, you’re enbyphobic.

nonbinary people can be poc, lesbian, gay, bi, amab, binary aligned, not transistioning, not identifying as trans, fat, and overall not fit your “ùwú enby space babey” aesthetic.

let nonbinary people exist the way they do.

stop treating our identities like things to be discussed or debated NO MATTER WHAT SIDE YOURE ON. nonbinary people are nonbinary and are valid, end of convo. our validity was NEVER up for debate. periodt.

if you take away one thing from this, let it be to LISTEN TO NONBINARY PPL.

- sincerely, a very pissed black autistic bisexual nonbinary person who uses neogenders and has they/them, ae/aer, and ae/aem pronouns

terfs/gender critical people and transmeds/truscum, don’t even BREATHE near this post.

Regardless of how you look, your gender identity is more than valid.

Genre: Fluff

Words: 300+

Gender: Neutral

Requested: n/a (go request stuff btw)

How he asked you out

As you two were in the same study group, it would be hard to have the both of you alone

With Seonghwa especially clinging to you, he had to find a way to get you and him alone

So the genius himself decided to make a decoy study session

He sent out am email, posing that it was for the whole group

6pm Local Cafè, second booth

Weird, you thought

You never study there

6pm arrives amd you rock up to the cafè

But only Yeosang is there

After the awkward introduction, he asked you to go out with him next weekend

What you first date is like

you wouldn't really suspect this but i feel that his dates would be somewhat spontaneous

not bungee jumping or anything like that-

but more outdoors

such as ice-skating or volunteering at an animal shelter

just imagine him holding your hands as you two avoid slipping on the ice

you two would end up slipping together

with him falling on top of you

First kiss

as a continuation from the first date headcannon

he would end up leaning in

as uncomfortable the ice is, the kiss was so sweet and shy

as the rush of adrenaline passes, he would frantically apologise for kissing so suddenly

Overall

yeosang is the sweetest boi

he would take care of you all the time

Words: 300+

Genre: Fluff

Requested: n/a

Gender: Neutral

How he asked you out

As he is more extroverted than the other members, he would more likely ask you out in public

Don't get me wrong, he is shy

But he definitely has more confidence than Hongjoong and Seonghwa

Although a park is public, since he asked you so early in the morning, the only people there were joggers and bike riders

As you admire the sunrise, he fumbles his fingers, figuring out how to ask

After a while, you notice his nervous tick

"Are you alright Yunho?"

"I am just figuring out how to ask you out." He asks abruptly

"Wait no-"

"I mean, will you go out with me?"

There is no way you would reject this dork

"Of course I would."

What his dates are like

Although he very popular in the public eye, he would love spontaneous, public dates

Driving out of Seoul to visit the beaches, going to museums, waterparks

Going outside and showing you off to the world is his biggest flex

Who wouldn't flex the fact that they are dativg an angel (*☻-☻*)

He would show you different tourist spots in Seoul, hand in hand

He doesn't care if fans are taking photos, he would act as if it's just the two of you

What his kisses are like

So friggen p l a y f u l

He would smile and blush in between pecks

He would hold your cheeks with his bigass hands

He would peck a lot more than making out, unless y'all are ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Genre: Fluff

Words: 300+

Requested: n/a

Gender: Neutral

How he asked you out

Another shy boy

Except a shy boy that knows what he is doing *cough cough* not hongjoong

He asks you out on y'all's first date

At a quiet cafè, to avoid sasaengs

After he orders, he would have a calm exterior

His interior says otherwise

When a the waitress leaves, he would calmly ask you to date him

You accept ofc

A cheesy smile would fall on his face

What his dates are like

Another sweet boy

His go-to date would be going to that quiet cafè with you

Ordering pastries to try out together

He would shyly watch you as you enjoy a macaron

Afterwards, you two would walk around the area, hand in hand

When the date finishes, he would walk you to your home, to make sure you make it home safe

Then kiss you on the cheek before you go inside

What his kisses are like

This little shit

T e a s i n g

Like he won't let you live this thing down

I know this is a soft fic but I feel, as he is v shy, that he would most likely only kiss when he in the mood

Maybe pecks happen in private during soft hours

But I feel that making out would be more common than you think

You would straddle him as he wraps his arms around your waist

Aight im outta here

Overall, he is v romantic but lowkey dirty in private

Gentleman in the streets

Freaky in the sheets lmao

Words: 300+

Genre: Fluff

Requested: n/a

Gender: Neutral

How he asked you out

As a shy leader, he would ask you out privately

At the KQ building as the most public

To avoid teasing from his members, he would ask you out at your home

He would come over with no context, catching you by surprise

You let him in kindly (because he's Hongjoong ofc)

Although you let him in, he refuses to go inside

"Why aren't you coming in? It's freezing outside."

Hongjoong stutters, trying to find a way to argue

"Come in before the breeze-"

"I like you." He says without realisation

Then it hits him

"Uh i mean-"

"I like you too." You interrupt

"You do?"

What his dates are like

As a celebrity, it is hard to date in public

He makes up for it tho :)

Most of his dates are movie nights at the dorms

After watching at least five movies, tue marathons would usually finish in the early hours

Making it dangerous for you to go home, he lets you sleep over

Sharing a hoodie and a bed together

If he is able to date without dispatch on his back all the time, he would love to take you to a theatre

Watching the recreations for movies you both love

Heathers

West Side Story

You name it

He would buy you the most glamorous attire

Matching his red velvet suit

He would love watching them

Then driving you back to your home

Kissing you on your cheek at the front door

What his kisses are like

So s w e e t

Your teeth would get cavities if you kiss him for too long

He prefers pecks as they are so wholesome compared to making out

As a vanilla guy, at most, making out would last for a few minutes.

The kiss would he strictly sweet tho

Unless he's in the mood ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

(Thats for another time)

He would pin you down, leaning in

He would cup your cheeks