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I am here to say you are doing a fine job. Know that you are not alone, and there are people that are more than willing to hear you out. Anything in your way is just another trial you can handle, it will be fine. As long as you try your best, you will always reach your goal.

Who are we to judge? We are no one to judge, we are all the same and going through this terrible experience does not make you less of a person. If you need someone to talk to, remember there is always someone ready to hear you. There is someone ready to give you a hand, you are not alone here. Sometimes you might feel like it is the end of the world, or even think that disappearing is the only option there is, but you are wrong. That is not the only option, do not ever think about that remember there is always someone that cares about you and that is willing to do anything to help you. There are so many places that are there for you. There is no need to be ashamed, just remember you will get through this, so keep your head up and show those who have harmed you that you are a strong person. They will not see you defeated, no one deserves to see you down, do it for you to get back up and pursue your goals and have a bright future. Remember we are all here for you.

I am so deeply sorry for the pain you are experiencing. I know my words cannot heal the tremendous suffering that comes from this, and nothing I say will erase that memory. All I can say is that you are never alone and you are always supported. Whether you feel like it or not, someone out there is ready to listen and support you in what you are going through. It's going to take a lot of strength to get through this, but the strongest battles are often given to the strongest people, and you are stronger than you may even know. I hope your faith in humanity may be one day restored, that you find comfort in the help of others, and that you find peace and solitude knowing you are loved and cared for.

I am writing to you to let you know you are not alone, what has happened to you is not what defines you. Do not blame yourself for the conduct of others you were only just a victim of their horrible actions. I want to say that you are appreciated and things will get better for you because what you went through only makes you stronger. Take every day a step at a time and do little things that bring you joy. I know you might be scared to do the things you use to do but just know there is a community of people that are here with you to help every step of the way because you are not alone. I know talking about your experience may be scary from fear of being looked at differently but, see if you are reading this that I am very proud of how strong you are being. As a survivor, you may question why this had to happen, and if it is your fault. The truth is we may never know why, but I ask if you are reading this to take what has happened to you to empower other women who have suffered the same abuse and keep in mind it is not your fault. Don’t feel like you have to go through this alone. Thank you for continuing to live and looking for ways to heal. I saw it with all the gratitude in the world that you are a role model to follow.

I would first like to start by saying I believe you. Over the years I have had the opportunity to educate myself regarding many issues including those who have faced sexual assault, and I can confidently say that those who have experienced this are some of the strongest people out there.

I can’t imagine the internal suffering you have experienced at some point or still do, but the fact that you are standing here today shows so much courage and integrity that earns so much respect from people like me! I hope that by reading this you will accept the fact that you are a beautiful and resilient survivor. I hope that one day people in situations like yours find peace within. No one should ever keep you from living your life, and I hope you don’t allow yourself to do that as well.

Every person is different, but I hope that whatever way you cope, know that something is there for you no matter what. Support can come from your friends, a relative, a pet, a book, or maybe even a guiding spirit.

I’d like to end this by saying that whoever you are, I am thinking of you and that you are loved deeply.