What has been your favorite ask or ask category if too hard to pick and your least favorite?

Aw! Thank you for reading it!

That's a tough question! I love when people write about how the show (and the fandom, and the fic, etc) has affected their lives. It's brought so much good to my life and I love how we all have this shared experience of loving something and being moved by something that brings us together in this space 😭

I love asks about specific moments from the show that compel me to search for the perfect gif (unless I can't find the gif I want, then I lose my mind!)

And, of course, I love anything that makes me laugh.

But why? Is it about lack of respect? I'm speculating now. Maybe I'm totally wrong or/and being naive.

Everybody as different opinions. Is it about this or am I totally wrong?

There is so much wrong in the world. Can't we be nice to each other in this community.

Thank you for the nice work you do. I love the post. And the work you do for it. 💜

Thank you so much, anon! 💜

Overall, no, I don't see a lot of negativity.

But to elaborate, there are different types of negativity I see. There's negativity towards characters (fine), towards the show (fine in small doses if respectful critique), and towards other fans and their opinions (not something I want to be a part of).

At some point a few days ago (honestly don't know. what is time?) I was scrolling through my inbox to post something and it was mostly a mix of all the above, and I just didn't feel like posting any of it. So I asked for people to send in more fun, positive asks (and you did, thank you! 🫶) Because that's mostly what I want to post.

But to get back to that third category of negativity, I do feel like I've been seeing more of that recently. Or maybe I've just been noticing it more? And it's usually related to discussion of the more controversial characters. I think people should be able to write about and have nuanced discussion about and even ship these characters without, for example, being called "apologists," which to me is divisive, comes across as a moral judgment, and makes people feel less welcome in the fandom. And I think going on anon makes people more bold and less respectful in what they say about others, and personally I don't want to enable that.

whats (vaguely) the most horrifying one that u coudnt post?

what kind of confessions are ur favourite?

what kind of confessions r ur least favourite?

Oh! Questions for me! Thank you!

Favorite confession: Oh wow, I have enjoyed so many of them! I guess if I had to pick one I would choose @anonfromtheflight's first confession. I felt sooo excited for her when I read it! I love reading people's first impressions of the show, and hers reminded me of just how special Young Royals is. I loved imagining her falling in love with YR up in the clouds, and I was so happy that she somehow stumbled upon this blog to scream about it afterwards in the airport. And best of all, we now have her here with us!

The most horrifying one that I couldn't post: I wouldn't say any have been horrifying. Not very many have even been offensive. I don't know! Overall I've been very impressed by the lack of hate/trolls/etc.

Favorite kind of confession: I love when people confess about how YR or fic or the fandom has positively affected their lives! I also love confessions where I am able to use the perfect gif! That's so satisfying.

Lie?

Spend too much money?

Start a new hobby that you'd never before considered?

Have a revelation about yourself or your personal life?

(also just really love the blog, thank you for everything you do <3)

Ohhh, thank you so much, anon! 🥺