You Be Trippin'
August 2, 2012
By Wav Lynx,
You be Trippin'
Why are some people put in the category of being a player, freak, or whatever.... when the person being accused is being accused by the actual offender. You see, some people have what we call a guilty conscious. They know they doing wrong in what ever way, yet they push it on the next person...as if they are "Holly and Dow"..Very LAME.. Look.... come to a understanding and realize what it really is,and taking it for what it is. A man establishes exactly what he is looking for at the very start, when in some cases a woman realizes what she wants in the man as later and are faster to love a man at that point. This can be vice-versa, depending on the type of person you are. Everyone is different, but ultimately want a companion they can depend on for support and care.
A friend of mines was dating this girl who always thought that if he wasn't chilling with her, he must be with the next chick.. or if she wasn't with him, she was with the next dude. This is a high case of "insecurities that stem from past relations that obviously won't erase. Trust is def not in the picture. Sad Story..... Both parties in this case regardless of who is doing what.. are just pushing away a potential good catch, all because they want to safe guard there heart over extreme. Questioning every lil detail, and assuming the worst becomes normal now and annoying. These types of people always try to end it,thinking your gonna end it, much like a employee thinking they might be fired, so they hurry up and resign... Stop trying 2 resign in efforts to safe guard your heart, when you should be wise and focus on the potential future and what you do trust in this person. Face it...you can never Trust a person 100 percent.. but you should be able to trust a person to some degree that at least you feel 70 percent trust in whatever they were doing and don't question everything they do otherwise call it what it is.....
Ladies and gentlemen, if neither one is demonstrating or giving you signs of deceit or games, why are you jumping pages to think the worst, bringing it up as a argument constantly, and creating a wedge in your relationship is pointless and stressful. It doesn't make much sense. To some guys its a battle that can't be won. If he says he wants to see you but works & his schedule doesn't allow him the liesure to Play, why when he finally accomplishes his mission, he his now considered the guy that does things only on his time, when he ready,.... No...its not the case of wanting to be with you, but the case of "Can I" be with you due to schedules and lifestyles.... "Can" and "Want" are very 2 separate definitions that get mixed up. Some people need to either be able to adapt to a persons lifestyle & become understanding; willing to put up with it or become selfish in their own self want, that nothing matters...everything is about "Me Time".. I personally don't even get "Me Time," being a Man of many talents and Dj ing worldwide and catering to many needs of services, yet I also become victim of the bash ment phrase: You Dont Have Time for ME!" In the end only a strong women or man who is supportive of an ambitious person for whatever they do whether they be a Artist, Athlete, Actor/Actress can survive in a very productive and strong relationship in the end, especially when you make the effort of being apart of it in some way, showing concern. You never want the world to treat them with more love than you are suppose to give, because thats when they will seek the attention away from home further and further. PLAY YOUR PART PEOPLE!
Honestly, I think people who understand the drive and business of wanting to be successful can be together with those in the same mind frame. Only a person who wants all attention and 24 hour focus to be on them, feels they are independent, and can careless of your goals and dreams. In the end there should be some level of "giving and taking on both parties. Have a open mind and "stop tripping" on this person, because you created a stigma or story about a person in your own mind due to your past experiences, that seem to haunt you on a daily basis chasing away potential angels and soul mates. YeaaaCuzzz!














