Like it's genuinely coocoo bananas people think polyamory isn't... real? is a joke? Isn't victim to structural discrimination?
For however many jokes are made about The Greater PNW Polycule, it's fucked how if I want my in-person butch to stay with me while while we move to live with my gf, I have to publicly hide any relationship I have with said gf for likely 5+ years. Otherwise that would invalidate my butch's "genuine partnership" with me: "A partnership is genuine if it has been entered into on a long-term and exclusive basis."











