yay, thank you! Iām always up for bigging up Lily. <3
Why I like them - Lilyās a fundamentally good person with a heart of gold, but sheās not a plaster saint and I love that. Sheās bold, sometimes argumentative, and cheeky as well as being talented and kind.
Why I donāt - Thereās nothing about Lily I donāt like, except for her fondness for cutesy nicknames. (Wormy? Really now?) Iām not a fan of how sheās treated by canon a lot of the time, and often fandom doesnāt do any better tbh.
Favourite scene - Lily explaining to Snape why they canāt be friends after he called her aĀ āmudbloodā. Sheās very clear that itās not a one-off, more the straw that broke the camelās back and that sheās tired of making excuses for him. Thereās an unfortunate trope in romance stories sometimes were a girls friends and family hate her boyfriend but that narrative says theyāre all wrong. Sometimes it does work that way but sometimes - as Lilyās come to realise - when the people who care about you dislike the boy hanging around you thereās a very good reason for it.
Favourite line - āI wouldnāt go out with you if it was a choice between you and the giant squidā -I know itās quoted to death, but I love how ridiculous it is, like Lily canāt even deal with all this bullshit.
Favourite outfit - Idk, what does she even wear? I tend to picture Lily in A-Line skirts and nice but sensible shoes. Just a touch of hot librarian vibe but subtle.
OTP - Lily/James really, although Iām fond of Sirius/Lily for wrongbadness, and a spot of Sirius/Lily/James. I wish there was better femslash options for Lily but itās sadly slim pickings.
Brotp BFF for life - itās annoying that we donāt know about Lilyās female friends, even though she mustāve had them as she was hanging out with a bunch of girls at the lake. For her canon friendships, itās Sirius & Lily all the way - Iām glad she has one relationship thatās mostly about someone supporting her, rather than how much emotional labour she does for other people - men, actually. The glimpses we get into Lilyās friendship with Sirius are all about her trusting him with her only child and relying on him for practical and emotional support. He never disses her or puts her down, even when he might be expected to, like when she tears one off James. Male-female friendships where the dude respects the woman are A+.
Head Canon - Lily was a very active, outdoorsy sort of child. She was in the Brownies, did gymnastics, played hockey and liked going for long walks in the countryside. She loved being a witch, and found the existence and possibilities of magic a constant delight.
Unpopular opinion - The Remus & Lily bff-ness so beloved in R/S circles is largely for his benefit and does Lily few favours. Itās significantly less prevalent in Jily and other Lily-focused works, in which Lily is generally friendly with Remus, but not at the expense of her other relationships.
A wish - More Lily content in general, please. Especially more about Lily being her own person and having stories that belong to her, beyond her being kind and supportive to dudes.
An oh-god-please-donāt-ever-happen - She started the series dead, so I guess itās all uphill from there, right?
5 words to best describe them - Brilliant Northern sass mistress owns all.
My nickname for them - I donāt think I have one? I donāt generally give characters nicknames.