#wlwsafe

Hacks not only confirmed their leads as never going to be a couple, but mocked their lesbian fans to their faces with the lines they delivered it in. (Their main fanbase!)

Why do lesbians never get to eat? Next to nothing has come out of the mainstream that's really truly good, with actual depth, talent in writing and acting, respect for women and our bodies, and our sensuality, NOT sexist raunch aimed specifically for the male viewer.

With the lesbians happy together, at the end. Without undue suffering for men's sick enjoyment. Without salacious sensationalist shock value.

When do we seriously get something mainstream?

Rachel Maddow and her Girlfriend Give Up TV on Weekends

Rachel Maddow doesn’t bring her work home with her. The MSNBC host, 37, and her artist girlfriend Susan Mikula spend each weekend at their quaint home three hours north of New York in Western Massachusetts, and it doesn’t have cable – or even a television. “We realized that the two of us have the TV Disease,” explains Mikula, 52. “Rachel can’t have one because she’d watch it all the time!” Instead, they enjoy the solitude and home-cooked meals Mikula prepares. Maddow does have a small TV in their tiny New York City apartment, but Mikula only uses it “so that I can watch her on Friday nights before I come pick her up.” The couple met in 1999, when Maddow, who then worked odd jobs, was hired to do yard work on Mikula’s property in the Berkshires. “It was very Desperate Housewives,” jokes Maddow of how their relationship began.

go get fucking therapy don't tell yourself that shit's okay

it's bad enough hetero culture is infected with the lana del rey esque p*rental role fetishizing crap. don't bring that disease in here too

And aren't totally MOGAI lmao?

I tried to join one that was about rewatching Xena: Warrior Princess. I just got massive negativity and social exclusion for being genderqueer/transmasc and lesbian at the same time. Maybe even MORE for being specifically lesbian...most members were bi of the personality type that vocally disliked anyone with a strong preference (straight or gay).

"eww, why do they post so much about fake silicone, it's just toys and games, why don't they just like using their pussies like Us Normal Girlssss~*~*~"

like i get it. we are not about the formula for the way you want to fuck. we are clearly wired differently. it's real to us, even if it doesn't make sense to you. move on rather than being catty about it.

this shit is why i gravitate to befriending men in the lgbt community sometimes. at least they're not gonna judge me for bein masculine, having a cock-based sexuality and using it for topping the same sex.

is it that hard to not be a prissy bitch to us weirdo leslie feinberg gender freaks? for like, one day. cut the high school garbage.

there aren't that many of us in the world, and if you don'tlike to see us socially and sexually connecting together online, too bad. it's because we are a serious minority in every place where we live, and we often know few people or even no one else like us irl, and we need each other, we need to do that reaching out.

if stone top/bottom butch/femme sex is unrelatable to you, just press the X button and don't waste your time posting shit about it behind our backs. it's public, we do know what you say about us, and can easily guess what else in closed spaces, too.

Every new arrogant generation tries to recreate the 60s-80s Lesbian Sex Wars that divided us.

it's so old hat. just show each other respect, get over the cultural/physical differences, and grow up.

Often, even the majority of the time, the reason why a stone IS stone is that they are basically (whether they use the word or not) dysphoric about the vagina that they have. Not necessarily to the point of changing that, at least not historically (it wasn’t then allowed to live as female/lesbian and also have surgery) — but to the point of protecting it from unwanted contact with others. Protecting yourself. Expressing the real, natural sexuality that is most innately right for you. Which usually means being a total top and acting as though the strapon is a prosthetic, acting as though it is real, an actual body part of yours, an extension of your body. Ignoring the vagina under it and treating it as though it’s not there. (Yes, this can seem somewhat adjacent to transmasculine people — but it certainly doesn’t have to be exactly the same, and feeling this way does *not* make a cis woman who feels it, trans/nb/genderqueer/etc. YMMV, all up to the individual stone top’s feeling.)

Basically the only other reasons for being stone that you will see are 2) those who simply prefer not to have penetration — so, a softer form of stone where maybe she allows outer oral but never insertion, or 3) those with some trauma who are rightfully setting their boundaries to protect themselves, and not allowing touch that would be painful. Sometimes a person can be all three (these 2 and the above).

ironically, often from the very same people who KNOW you are special, and that’s WHY they want to jump at the chance to have your attention, to bring you down, to exploit you! many of these are abusers who know we’re rare and don’t know when they’ll next get another chance. that’s why romanticization goes hand in hand with mistreatment. lovebombing is part of the cycle too.