#whichwolfdoyoufeed

A part of being content is accepting everyone for who they truly are. Good and bad, or mostly of one. Sometimes the best reaction is just letting go, because you can’t control circumstances or make someone become a better version of themselves. You can not reason with someone who never finds fault within themselves or actions. When it comes down to it, some people are just conditioned in their ways and aren’t willing to change. Time after time again, these people will repeat the same cycle with many different people; with no means of improvement. It isn’t anyone’s duty to make them see or choose which side of themselves to feed. In the end, we can plant the seed, but their life is not our destiny. If they aren’t willing to confront a dark part within themselves, they will never truly transform. Excuses, no matter how real they may be, are detrimental to all that anyone can be. You must own all that you are and strive to pursue, with all the shadows in between. An excuse is just what it is, an excuse. Our actions are still there. Growth is a beautiful and tiresome thing, but often neglected. We mustn’t let others stunt our being, because they are too caught up with their inner deceiving. People aren’t ready to meet the newer and improved versions of themselves. So, instead they cling to what’s familiar and further deteriorate into their current mindset. We can not modify those who choose to stay stuck within their own misery. They will constantly spew their negativity to anyone around and further project bad energy into the world. These people aren’t willing to see the medium between and will always say that their fingers are clean. It is not our job to meet people at their level or try and prove them otherwise. The facts could all be there, but they won’t ever change their stance or meet you half way. The problem is always someone else and we must accept that their fighting their internal self and none of it has to do with us. Why waste your time trying to get a person to see your reality? We all perceive and go on with our lives based on what be choose to see and be. Allow yourself to walk your truth.

Why yes, I hold two wolfs within me, but they are no longer at war with one another. In fact, they’ve become quite the lovers since they’ve started to put asides their differences and found a reason to coincide. The dark wolf is fierce, outspoken and dangerous; always howling with the rhythm of the moon. The light wolf is loyal, patient, and kind; forever soaking beneath the rays of the sun. Together they form as one and are the embodiment of my inner love. I find myself now feeding both.

Which wolf do you feed?