Do you know about Weird Pride Day? It's a thing, and it’s today, March 4th!
I don't know exactly when it happened, but I embraced weirdness a long time ago. I still have a journal of mine from middle school, and this is what I wrote on the inside front cover at the time:
THINK AS I THINK by Stephen Crane
"Think as I think," said a man,
"Or you are abominally wicked;
And after I had thought of it,
I said: "I will, then, be a toad."
Now admittedly, I found it way easier to apply this to accepting others who were different in some way than to myself for a long time. I was friends with the closeted gay kids and the gothy kids and other "outliers" even though I didn't necessarily identify with any of that myself. I still masked hardcore for most of my life, though.
What finally made me proud to be weird instead of ashamed was finding out there's an actual name for it and whole community of other weirdos like me! I'm not broken, I'm just autistic, and we're supposed to be the way we are!
So now, I'm not afraid to be weird. I'm teaching my kids it's okay to be weird, that our whole family is weird! I own it, and no one can use it to hurt me anymore.
More here: https://oolong.medium.com/weird-pride-day-232465b67dd9