#wedding reflections

maid of honor dress being a different color: when we got the dress I thought this was sweet of her but worried I’d be getting more attention than I particularly wanted BUT actually was super helpful for vendors the day of because it was clear I was the MOH so they could identify me easily & didn’t have to try to remember my face/name 

LUNCH. make sure to figure out some kind of lunch for bridal party day of.

I’m 100% doing a first look and trying to get as many pictures as possible done before. 

avoid a venue where there will be multiple weddings going on all at once if possible

a wedding planner seems like a good investment in hindsight so you don’t spend the day of the rehearsal dinner dealing with vendors & to have someone who is not the MOH decide when to tell bride there might be an issue [which is resolved and perfectly fine 15 mins after you tell the bride ofc]