In honor of Washette Week, today Iâll be talking about Washingtonâs letter to Lafayette on 30 September 1779 which is ultra-detailed and surprisingly lengthy (something that George himself acknowledges in the last paragraph). It even includes mention of George being ghosted *gasp! Who would do such a thing?!* Donât worry, Iâm about to tell you! Hereâs a little collection of my favorite snippets from this bad boy.
Your forward Zeal in the cause of libertyâYour singular attachment to this infant worldâYour ardent & persevering efforts, not only in America but since your return to France to serve the United States. your polite attention to Americansâand your strict & uniform friendship for me, has ripened the first impressions of esteem & attachment which I imbibed for you into such perfect love & gratitude that neither time nor absence can impair which will warrant my assuring you, that whether in the character of an Officer at the head of a Corps of gallant French (if circumstances should require this)âwhether as a Major Genl commanding a division of the American ArmyâOr whether, after our Swords & Spears have given place to the plough share & pruning-hook, I see you as a private Gentlemanâa friend & CompanionâI shall welcome you in all the warmth of friendship to Columbias shore; & in the latter case, to my rural Cottage, where homely fare & a cordial reception shall be substituted for delicacies & costly living.
This specific compliment is so sweet! No matter the time or the place, George wants Lafayette to know that heâll always care about him. Fun fact: Lafayette took George up on his offer in 1784 when he visited Mt. Vernon from approximately August 17 - 26.
Colo. Neville called upon me about a Month since and was to have dined with us the next day but did not come, since which I have not seen him nor do I know at this time where he is
Yep. You read that right. Colonel Neville ghosted George.Â
let me entreat you to be perswaded, that to meet you any where after the final accomplishment of so glorious an event would contribute to my happinessâ& that, to visit a country to whose generous aid we stand so much indebted, would be an additional pleasureâbut remember my good friend, that I am unacquainted with your languageâthat I am too far advanced in years to acquire a knowledge of it. and that to converse through the medium of an interpreter upon common occasions, especially with the Ladies must appr so extremely aukwardâinsipidâ& uncouthâthat I can scarce bear it in idea. I will therefore hold myself disengaged for the present and when I see you in Virginiaâwe will talk of this matter & fix our plan.
George not speaking French would surely put a damper on the trip that Lafayette has proposed! Not to worry, theyâll reconvene and figure out a plan that will leave neither of them embarrassed in front of the ladies. Spoiler alert: George never went to France.
But to concludeâyou requested from me a long letterâI have given you oneâbut methinks my dear Marquis I hear you say there is reason in all thingsâthat this is too longâI am clearly in Sentiment with you, & will have mercy on you in my nextâBut at present must pray your patience a while longer, till I can make a tender of my most respectful compliments to the Marchioness. Tell her (if you have not made a mistake, & offered your own love instead of hers to me) that I have a heart susceptable of the tenderest passion, & that it is already so strongly impressed with the most favourable ideas of her, that she must be cautious of putting loves torch to it; as you must be in fanning the flame. But here again methinks I hear you say, I am not apprehensive of dangerâMy wife is youngâyou are growing old & the atlantic is between youâAll this is true, but know my good friend that no distance can keep anxious lovers long asunder, and that the Wonders of former ages may be revived in thisâBut alas! will you not remark that amidst all the wonders recorded in holy writ no instance can be produced where a young Woman from real inclination has prefered an old ManâThis is so much against me that I shall not be able I fear to contest the prize with youâyet, under the encouragement you have given me I shall enter the list for so inestimable a jewell.
George joking that Lafayette is the one who loves him rather than Lafayetteâs wife, Adrienne, is such a fun glimpse at his lighthearted side that was reserved for a select few. Aw! Not so fast, though, because this paragraph takes a sudden turn thatâs reminiscent of what I read as Alexanderâs not-so-subtle attempt at compliment fishing from none other than John Laurens but with just a dash of self deprecation.Â
When I look back to the length of this letter I am so much astonished & frightned at it myself, that I have not the courage to give it a careful reading for the purpose of correctionâYou must therefore receive it with all its imperfectionsâaccompanied with this assurance that though there may be many incorrections in the letter, there is not a single defect in the friendship of my dear Marquis Yr Most Obedtâ& Affecte Servt Go: Washington
Lafayette had requested long letters, so long letters he shall receive! Proof-read long letters? Now thatâs pushing it. The closing sentence here is both wholesome and heartwarming - throughout this letter George stresses how much he cares for Lafayette but this one sentence stands out to me because itâs both plain and poetic.
I highly recommend reading the entire letter - it covers a variety of topics, both political and personal, and is all around a great read to get a sense of their relationship!
