Hi there!! Could I get an AOT matchup??
My info;
I’m 19, I’m genderqueer but fem presenting!! I dress in shojo girl style fashion, and I’m a closet Lolita.. I have long straight red hair (think Asuka from NGE color.. and cut lol) I have green eyes, I’m white and I’m like.. super duper pale… I’m about 5’6 and weigh 110 lbs
I have BPD but it’s well managed ❤️ I’m a psychology student aiming to be a child therapist . I like to cosplay on the side, and i occasionally sing at clubs and events for extra cash lol. I enjoy history, linguistics and cryptology in particular.
Growing up I was a child actor , in like .. a bunch of stuff. And I was also a model for most of my life. I quit when I was 17 , it kind of fucked me up lol but basically. I can act and sing.
I’m an ENJF 2w3 personality type, my highest kins are Kurapika , Monika , Ai Hoshino, Nico Robin and Hanako kun. I tend to be very responsible, I make straight A’s, I put a lot of effort into my appearance and presence. And I tend to mask a lot of my true emotions. I’ve had issues with being manipulative due to the way I was raised, I never feel comfortable asking for things I always feel like I have to “convince” people to do things for me. I’m very well liked among my peers, in high school I was student council president and homecoming queen. Despite this I only have 1-2 people I truly consider myself to be close with. I just can’t connect with people on an authentic level on my part. I’m very good at communication and reasoning, I think with my head and not my heart. I have struggles with being apathetic in that regards. I also grew up with a big inferiority complex, to combat that now I can be very headstrong and stubborn about what I want and what I believe in. Internally I am kind of judgemental of others, I have a very black and white sense of what is right and what is wrong. How people should and shouldn’t behave. I get annoyed by people with lots of energy, or just people in general. but I NEVER show my annoyance. I try my best to make others happy, and be there for people even if I don’t like them. I would never act cruelly towards another person, even if they like put a pipe bomb in my mailbox..
in a partner I like someone super intelligent and intuitive, someone who is logical like me but won’t push me away/freak out when I have episodes. Someone caring and genuine towards me. Preferably someone more quiet, but who won’t hesitate to defend me in conflict. Someone who will pay attention to me and spend time with me. I don’t like receiving gifts, my love language is quality time and words of affirmation. BUT PLEASE DEAR GOD I CANNOT TAKE THE STUPID SOCIALLY INEPT KIND OF QUIET GIYS OH MY GOD.
Please take your time and if you can’t do it no worries!!
hi angel! sorry this took me so long, i tried to make it a little longer to thank you for your patience <3
back to matchups
i match you with... armin arlert!
i was stuck between a few folks for you, but overall, armin takes the cake. he's highly intelligent and not just in the classroom, but he's very emotionally in touch.
in choosing to study psychology, and taking the work to become a child therapist (i give you all the credit in the world for that omg, that is literally incredible), you both have a thirst for knowledge and intellectual curiosity. also due to armin's just overall curiosity (and genuine care for you), he'd be an incredible listener, he'll listen to you talk about anything and everything and offer actual thoughtful and attentive responses, whether it be something like light like interests or it be something heavy if you're having a rough time.
though you seem usually reserved with your emotions, armin is very emotionally smart and could probably read you and connect with you, but of course, only following set boundaries. he's a respectful man and he's going to respect his lovely partner's wishes. he doesn't demand emotional vulnerability immediately, but he’s patient and steady enough to earn your trust. you like to lead, and he'll let you, he never threatens your autonomy, but gently insists on being there with you
you do not want the awkward, emotionally obtuse “quiet guy,” and Armin is far from that. He’s reflective and introverted, and uses quick thinking and logic, but that doesn't take away from the fact he communicates with clarity and care — a rare, perfect mix of empathy and intelligence.
as for your love languages, words of affirmation is where he excels, not in an over the top corny or cheesy prince charming from shrek way, but in reaffirmations in passing and simply telling you when he's though about you, or telling you how wonderful you are and how grateful he is for you. as quality time, he's attached to your hip as long as you'll let him be! you could be reading or working on two totally different things next to each other, but it doesn't matter, he gets to spend time with you. when you're overwhelmed from performance, be it academic, social, or literal, he’s your sanctuary. he creates a space where you can just exist, without needing to impress, and he's always so happy to.
