#virgo asks

Just a little thing at the beginning: this is going to be a long answer so please be prepared!! If you want a shorter answer, scroll to the bottom few paragraphs  (right before the big ‘cutesy part of each signs’)💕💕💕

This is really fun to answer because skdjnfknsk it makes me gush about the signs 💕

Astrologically speaking, every sign tend to have their cutesy/charming qualities to them that we’re attracted too- no matter how bland or boring you think you are. 💕

There’s always a different side to your placement you haven’t gotten to explore/been in touch with yet! But others sees this quality in you, and are attracted to you because of it (vice versa, you see this in other people too and your attraction stems from your familiarity/unfamiliarity with it )💕

Especially in the case of idols: When we see idols as examples, there’s many different kinds of representation of the signs (and different types of combinations) for us to see/make sense of. From their charm, to their wit, to the cutesy factor. They’re made up of all different elements, signs and placements. It’ll be dumb to say Irene has the same charm as Jisoo, so why compare yourself to someone else when your strengths are clearly different as well? All of these together– combinations of their individual placements– contributes to their overall cuteness/ charm in a different way from one another! 💕

So like, with Jungkook and Nayeon for example – their charm comes from a combination of Virgo Libra and Scorpio– although these signs can be intimating by themselves– together they make a combination that attracts people to them in their individual ways! 💕

(Thus, the cutesy vibe you get from them, because even if the user/owner feels like it’s a disadvantage to their personal development– it’s that human factor that’s left in their equation that really makes them adorable!)

Leo Moon (JK) has their individual charm, but so does Cancer placements, Taurus (IU) and Aries (Lisa/Rosie) every sign and placement have their unique charm! 💕 Even Scorpio, Aquarius and Capricorn who has bad reps for it (look at Black Pink members and Loona! They’re adorable!) 💕

I think most of whom you’re describing tend to have some kind of Venus influence on them (Taurus/Libra) which makes sense– because they do come across as someone who’s more harmonious than others! 💕 (and Venus being a social relationship/self-expression planet, when it comes to attracting others– these signs tends to gather more recipients to their charm than most)💕

If you don’t mind, I kind of want to expand on this a little bit more. I want to point out individual charms in each sign– since you did mention the physical/ behaviour stuff that is cute 💕💕

Cutesy Part of each Signs 💕:

Aries - really expressive, especially with their reactions/facial expression. Youthful quality to them, can get really whiny but also pouty. Doesn’t tend to sulk, but when they’re committed to something they really energized about it (see: Taehyung, Lisa, Rosie, lowkey Yoongi and IU) 

Taurus - charming but in like, an earthy way. Secretly sassy but also easy to laugh with people. Down to earth, humble, tries to include everyone. (IU) Tends to be easily pleased, so simply pleasures like stuffing their face with food, doing cutesy stuff (aegyo) or simply just being touched/affectionate skin-ship is makes them preen. 

Gemini - naturally uplifting to be around, wants to spread positivity, energy and joy in the world. Kinda like bees– they bumble around, roll in pollen for affection and help spread that awareness/idea to other flowers as well. Just trying to do good in the world. (see: Jimin, Hoshi) 

Cancer - just wants to care for people, so much that they’ll man-handle you into a stronghold of their arms. Stubbornly affectionate– in a very pro-active way sometimes. Speaks like they’re consoling you, but also likes to think they’re a bad bitch. (see: Wonwoo) 

Leo - wants the fight the world, wants the fight the sun. Can be dumbasses but the best kind of dumbasses who laughs at themselves. Playfulness personified. Has a lot of warmth and affection to give, but can easily be cry babies because of that as well. Just wants to love, but doesn’t know how to let go when they love so much. (see: Seungcheol, low key JK)

Virgos - their literal goal in life is to help someone. In any way that they can. They LIKE serving humanity, people, themselves. Just want to feel productive and useful, gets huffy when they’re mad or upset. Wants to cry alone even though they have people around them. Embarrassed super easily, awkward babies who doesn’t like showing weakness (doesn’t know how to face you after they break down in front of you). (see: highkey Yoongi, lowkey Namjoon, JK) 

Libra - a Mess until they figure themselves out. High key hard on themselves more so than what they do to anyone else around them. Just wants the best for everyone, the kind of people who’s actually happy for someone else when they’re not trying to swallow down their own feelings. Do The Most for the people around them and genuinely just wants some kind words of support/praises sometimes. (see: Jimin, JK, Jeonghan)

Scorpio - just wants to be understood, and stop being misunderstood tbh. Pushes themselves to feel connected to close connections around them, genuinely caring and supportive of anyone who needs it. Would actually– sincerely apologize and take full responsibilities for their action when they realize they’re wrong. One of the most sincere, and misunderstood softies out there. (see: Minghao, LOONA, lowkey half of bts: Jimin, JK, Namjoon, Jin) 

Sagittarius -  actually a lot more laid back than they are described as. LOUD WHINING, when they’re caught off guard. Exaggerated flirts that catches people off guard– they don’t mean it but wow their Impact. A lot more innocent than they led people on to believe, and a lot more quiet/just wants to rest as well. Wants someone close to them when they’re feeling introverted– just so they can feel closer to another person in private as well. Includes people in their future plan to show that they love them. (see: Woozi, Jin, low-key: Namjoon)

Capricorn - actually Super Funny. And do The Most to seek out humour in their life. Has A Lot of feelings, but doesn’t want to share because they feel like it burdens other people around them. Pretty selfless, but not in a way that can make people compliment them. Tsundere? But doesn’t mean to be. Just wants to sugar daddy/mommy everyone around them. When they’re rich, they’re going to pay off other’s student loans– just dm them (see: Joshua, Seungkwan, Taehyung) 

Aquarius - secretly hopelessly romantic even though they won’t admit it. Wants support, needs support, but can get really upset if they’re not shown genuine care for once in a while. Won’t show that they’re upset though, likes to act all cool and chill about it. Because they don’t want to pressure you, just encourage you more to be better (cause they know you’re already hard on yourself) genuinely selfless people. (see: Taehyung, Hoseok) 

Pisces - soft babies, honestly so romantic. Just want to self-express into the world and share joys/experiences with other people. Empathetic but gets hurt easily. TOUGH AS NAILS, because they have to get that way to fight for other people/their own expression to be heard as well. Absolutely amazing, because they go from 0-100 when they start off from soft to tough in an instant. (see: IU, Yoongi)

Capricorn-Cancer is pretty protective, it’s about feeling like you’re the closest emotionally to each other that they’re mostly vulnerable about and want to be reminded on/proven on. Their ‘protectiveness’ can lead into ‘restrictions’ so it’s not like they’re outwardly showing they’re jealous, they’re just careful/being thorough/not taking chances. (Some might not even say it because they see their ‘vulnerabilities’ as having feelings for someone/caring about them, so most of the time they go through their sadness/jealously alone before they bring it up to anyone to hear/counsel.) 

Letting them know what you can stand and what you’re firmly ‘no’ about– not just about them but about people in general reassures them. They like to give advice, so make sure you don’t take it the wrong way and just– take a moment to see beneath the layer and appreciate them. They want to hear your thoughts/opinion, but you have to understand too. 

Take your time, nod slowly, just take a moment to really think about the words and don’t be afraid to reflect/interpret what they said back to them to be sure. They usually have no problem correcting if something’s missing (gently) or telling you if you got it right (they’re pretty picky so if you got it right then you probably did, dont worry about them ‘holding’ back) 

They want vulnerability and intimacy but understand that they also think it’s their kryptonite. Caring for them is to ‘prove’ to them that your connection is real and it’s strong. Just as they feel for you, they’re unsure if you feel for them in the same way sometimes because they doubt themselves/their ability to understand people fully. It’s the looks in your eyes, your tone of voice, the tiniest touch that reassures them. Caring for them to quell their insecurities (as much as you can do) comes in two parts;

First is this intimacy moments where they feel ‘connected’ to you again. It gives them purpose, like a refresher of why they like you so much in the first place. They want to be reminded that they’re important but in the quietest ways. It doesn’t have to be proclaimed or constant, as long as it’s there and it’s fulfilling inside.

Second is more about everyday connection. You don’t have to be intimate all the time, but when you aren’t it’s always good to have a stable ‘platonic’ relation with them. Let them know what type of person you are, what’s happening right now, listen to their opinions and work together, let them participate in helping you when you make conclusions for yourself. What they want is to help, and if they know what you’re doing/how you’re going then it also ceases their worries/insecurities as well.

If their problem seems overwhelming (considering Capricorn-Cancer opposition and Virgo-Pisces opposition) try to focus on the Capricorn/Cancer part rather than the Virgo/Pisces part. With Virgo/Pisces, they have to deal with themselves (come to an actualization themselves). Capricorn/Cancer can invoke a defensive stance or strong opposition, but if you appeal to their rationality/logic or values they tend to listen to you better/work through things. (Mutables are notoriously opinionated, while the two Cardinals are just intensely stubborn.) 

I hope this makes sense?? 💕 Good luck!! 💕💕

Scorpio Sun | Virgo Sun

First of all let’s talk about security. Both of these signs indicate an individual need for security that is core/reflective inside of themselves (both nocturnal and ‘feminine’ polarity) most of the time is self-sufficient, as in they don’t need each other to complete one another, but together they are better because they choose to be. 

It comes from inner-strength, something that both of these signs have and puts an emphasis on. In order to feel ‘secure’ within themselves their life paths takes them on separate methods/choices they have to make, but the visions and ‘entirety’ of their results align once they get past their initial differences.

What this means is, although they can be minor (seeming major) misunderstanding between them there’s still appreciation and a willingness to work things out because they know (both of them) that at their core (Sun) they share the similar motives/morals with different ways of approaching things/differences between them. 

Minor complications can be resolved through patience, strength and trust in each other. All of which both Virgo/Scorpio places high value and tenacity in bringing the standard up high already. This creates a stable foundation, but also a fertile ground for self-improvement, tolerance and opening the self up even if they aren’t initially comfortable with where the direction is taking because they trust one another.

They take turns in an unlikely but very wholesome ‘yin-yang’ way. When Virgo communicates Scorpio takes action. When Virgo does something Scorpio feels. 

They help each other fulfills their individual want/goals/desires, through knowing that they are different– and have their own strength, they indicate a pair that has a separate wavelengths and level of comfortability with each other than what we conveniently see in everyday relationships. Their relationship runs deeper through both of their contributions, emotionally, mentally and spiritually (core-Sun).

Think of it as, adopting one another’s purpose and traits. When Virgo express how they want/feel/think about things, Scorpio does the action in order to give/show Virgo that it’s for them or that it can be achieved.

When Scorpio feels strongly about something/goes through their frustration, Virgo sets everything aside and work on it with their head down in order to give plain, clear, direct result and show them that it can be achieved as well.

It’s fulfilling and touching to both of them, basically. To see these individuals get out of their own shells of self-want/goals/desires and seeing them do little things/efforts to show the other they appreciate them. 

It’s about the non-verbal communication sometimes, the actions and demonstrations through doing things that really touches both of them. 

But remember that with Virgo/Scorpio, since both of them can be wrapped up in their own life/desire/self, both of them needs the other to have tact/cordialness when dealing with them.

Teamwork makes dreamwork, and sometimes both of them can forget to spare the other some patience/tolerance/courtesy when they took too much and may forget about the necessary details (besides relying on the foundation of their relationship) on the technicality/specifics to how they work together.

Just…to help both of them, think more in terms of Pisces and Libra. Just think of dealing with each other sometimes, infuse the self with elements of Pisces/Libra and try to work it out around that if it ever gets into a sensitive situation.

Most of the time, the only major problem is sensitivity issue and sharing time together (delegating time to self and to each other and to other people). Bringing elements of other signs in should be able to help with learning more about each other/how to operate with and around each other.

Yeah, with retrograde– whatever planet it lands it kinda implies that you might have to focus/work on it in order it to manifest. Because there’s difficulties achieving what it’s supposed to represent there a bit (like with Mercury retrograde its difficulties in communication/miscommunication, with Mars it’s difficulties exerting oneself/pushing oneself pursuing into activities/ambitions–  fully)

 It’s like your Mars is really tired and slower than what you see in your other placements– so it needs a little bit more help than most to really achieve it’s true potential. Think of yourself like a coach, and your planets are doing a track and field run. All your other placements are at the front but your Mars is lagging a little behind. You might not notice it at first because ‘gosh who’s going to win the race’ but that doesn’t mean it’s not taking part in the race (your life) so you have to look back at your Mars, cheer it on, run along the side with it and just— encourage it and cheerlead your own Mars you know?

It’s still a part of you, and it’s still something you can work on (invest in) to have them working fully in your life 💕 Even if you feel disconnected to it (I do too) it’s like your slowest child who’s insecure about itself a little and you’re it’s guardian (big sister/mother) so you kind of have to be loud and proud about it until they gain more confidence in themselves 💕

Ways to help your Mars in retrograde is to work on it yourself. Reading about how it’s supposed to be working, noticing little things about yourself (even just a little) and going ‘hey I can do that too’. Personally, with Mars I find it easier to just start acting like it– even when I’m not fully connected.

It helps your Mars not feel so alone in it’s race by you giving that supportive ‘push’ to your Mars– being there together. You’ll find yourself slipping a little easier into the Virgo Mars as well. You’re already predisposed to it but you haven’t been focusing on it (it’s been hiding away/feeling misunderstood). When you’re really in the need of – not wanting to panic and needing an immediate outlet– your Virgo Mars will start taking action because it feels more comfortable around you (you gave it that initial push/support so you’re building a bond here– to your Mars). 

It’s like your low-confidence son/brother you don’t really know how to connect to but you still have to be proud/supportive of. If you give them that understanding, that care/focus and that support– it’ll become more confident in itself and thus– start working better because of it (sense of unity in your family/placement household)

This is why retrograde is different than normally moving planet, when you first get into astrology it’s like ‘oh I already have that inside myself so I’m noticing all the little parts of me’ – retrograde isn’t like that, it’s like a hidden/locked part of yourself that you kind of need to work on/focus in to get it’s full potential. It’s your secret weapon, but also your most adoring family member. So just treat it like you would an encouraging parent/older sibling.      

And with Mars, it’s about activity/exerting yourself. The way you deal with long-term stress, the way you deal with frustrations (not really anger) and the way you pursue your inner needs (like the actual doing part/the style/way you do things). It’s all apart of Mars. There’s less thinking involved– more just exerting/externalization. Mars is about the physicality–the things you work for, parts of your ambitions and what you make an effort in as well 💕

Want to expand more on the anger part:  it’s more like how you take action when you’re angry. Things that’s been bothering you for a while but not enough for you to react instantly. You express it outwards through action (whether you talk it out, you sulk a bit first, you’re passive-aggressive about it) it’s how you handle your anger by expressing it to others (because we all have to do that) 

If you’re looking for ways you react to anger (immediate), I’d point to your Moon/Mercury –  things that makes you angry is a part of your Moon and how you emotionally respond to it (whether you’re sulky, throwing a tantrum, etc.) You’re more likely going to react with your Moon than your Mars– and most of the time respond through your Mercury (less physical, more of a retaliation/response through your brain/ego + it’s the style that you express things verbally.)

Your Moon/Venus/Sun fuels your passion, and your Mercury/Mars is the way you express these things outward (the way/style you express things). If your Mars is in retrograde– then that puts more pressure in your Moon/Venus/Sun to make up for it. You might find yourself aggravating your other placements more in order to do this, and thus a lot of the bad sides do tend to come out because you’re pushing it to do more. Particularly when it comes to Mercury, since it’s the only way you can externalize what’s bothering you now– so you might find yourself stepping on wrong toes (even on your own toes) in order to express yourself fully (your ‘worse’ emotions or your ‘worst’ traits)

Working on your Mars would help this, and it’ll help you feel more balanced overall as well.  

I hope this helps you a bit 💕 And also with Virgo Mars– personally I find myself gravitating to it whenever I work on something. Other people notice it but I don’t really pay attention myself. When I’m stressed/anxious/panicking I find myself automatically doing a routine (cleaning up, getting ready for bed, doing laundry to procrastinate) just to calm myself down. I also feel stressed/anxious when I don’t do anything ‘productive’, even if it’s just working on a post or doing commissions. I like to see the results of my hard work/effort paid off and I always put pressure on myself to at least try to be consistent in things that I do. 

If you have any more questions, definitely feel free to send them in! 💕 I hope this helps you!! 💕💕💕 And clear something up a bit!! 💕💕