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hello ଘ(੭ˊᵕˋ)੭ ੈ♡‧₊˚ casual reminder to be gentle with yourself today 🩰 gentleness can look like:

when i was younger i used to struggle with being kind and expressing love. without knowing, i have lied to myself saying im unworthy of giving people affection since i am someone who grew up with much trauma and felt unloved. how can i give people what i don't even experience? what if my love is unworthy, imperfect and not "correct"? but now i know i can become something i don't have. there's so much meaning in trying my best to become a better version of me, for me and for other people who are just like me. in fact, it may be even more impressive knowing i've become and easily possess the very love i did not get when i was younger.