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𝚋𝗅𝗈𝗀 𝚝𝗒𝗉𝖾 : dating advice

𝚍𝖺𝗍𝖾 : O9.11.2O25

hello there lovely members of Tumblr! I wanted to make a little blog about how to handle rejection. If you are going through a hard time, please lete remind you that you are more important than you realize! Let your dreams not be crushed by someone or something ✨

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Hardly anything is more painful than being rejected by someone you dated or had an interest in. No matter what kind of relationship you had, no one likes to find out that the person they’re interested in doesn’t have the same feelings for them. How do you accept that in a good way?

Dealing with the negative feelings that a rejection brings is not easy. But it is possible. First and foremost, you have to let go of the idea that you can change his or her mind. Don’t go against the feelings of the person you rejected. Don’t argue, but try to accept that it’s over. Otherwise you will only make it more painful for yourself.

It is important that you understand that a relationship that only you fight for is of no use. Ask yourself, ‘Why do I want to be with this person if they don’t want to be with me?’ it could help to see that you deserve someone who really wants to make an effort for you

It’s painful but not always easy to admit that it bothers you. It also hurts our ego. But laughing your feelings off isn’t going to help either. Denying you’re sad isn’t going to help you move forward. Suppressing your pain is only going to prolong the heartbreak. Face the pain, it’s okay to mourn the loss of a partner.

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How do you get out of the broken heart?

Rebuild your own circle of friends and if you dropped hobbies, restart them. Be sure to look at photos of yourself before the relationship, so you can see that there was also an ‘I’ before that time and that it was actually quite nice then. It’s okay to cry, it releases emotions and helps you deal with it. But don’t get hung up on. Try to plan fun trips in the coming time and mark them on a calendar so that you have good prospects.

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