Prov 15:1, âA soft answer turns away wrath,but a harsh word stirs up anger.â
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
Eph. 5:12, âFor it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret.â
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.
Prov. 15:13, âA glad heart makes a cheerful face, but by sorrow of heart the spirit is crushed.â
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
Prov. 11:22, âLike a gold ring in a pigâs snoutis a beautiful woman without discretion.â
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
Gen. 2:24, âTherefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.â
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
Eph. 5:33, âHowever, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.â
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
Deut. 3:28,âBut charge Joshua, and encourage and strengthen him, for he shall go over at the head of this people, and he shall put them in possession of the land that you shall see.ââ
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
Prov. 31:12, âShe does him good, and not harm,all the days of her life.â
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
Song of Sol. 7:12, âlet us go out early to the vineyards and see whether the vines have budded, whether the grape blossoms have opened and the pomegranates are in bloom.There I will give you my love.â
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over the duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones).
Song of Sol. 5:9, âWhat is your beloved more than another beloved,O most beautiful among women?What is your beloved more than another beloved,that you thus adjure us?â
11). Never compare your husband to your one-time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
Prov. 31:23,âHer husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the land.â
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
Eph. 4:31, âLet all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.â
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.
Prov. 12:4, âAn excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones.â
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
1 Sam. 25:3, âNow the name of the man was Nabal, and the name of his wife Abigail. The woman was discerning and beautiful, but the man was harsh and badly behaved; he was a Calebite.â
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
Luke 21:16, âYou will be delivered up even by parents and brothers and relatives and friends, and some of you they will put to death.â
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
Gal. 6:9, âAnd let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.â
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bedrock of every happy home.
Gal. 6:10, âSo then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.â
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. It is always teamwork.
Eph. 4:29, âLet no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.â
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
Prov. 24:27, âPrepare your work outside; get everything ready for yourself in the field, and after that build your house.â
Prov. 20:13, âLove not sleep, lest you come to poverty; open your eyes, and you will have plenty of bread.â
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.
Prov. 31:14, âShe is like the ships of the merchant;she brings her food from afar.â
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
Luke 11:3, âGive us each day our daily bread,â
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
Prov. 31:11, âThe heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.â
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
Prov. 22:14, âThe mouth of forbidden women is a deep pit;he with whom the Lord is angry will fall into it.â
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
Heb. 13:4, âLet marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.â
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
Prov. 22:6, âTrain up a child in the way he should go;even when he is old he will not depart from it.â
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
Prov. 31:28, âHer children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises herâ
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
1 Thess. 5:17, âpray without ceasingâ
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family.