#unstructured time

i prefer to work in natural light (big sunny windows my beloved). indoor lights don't make me feel as relaxed. HOWEVER, once it gets dark/rainy/late, it is now dark in my room, which is even worse than indoor lights. So recognizing that yes, natural light is ideal, but no, im not going to get the natural light back for the rest of the day, so i should probably turn on the light <- this thought process is more helpful to me than sitting there in the dark wishing the sun would come back.

similarly, i like working with a snack. a healthy snack helps me feel good. but if im out of oranges or dont have enough energy to make something, lets not sit there and eat nothing and be sad. instead, recognize that a candy or junkier snack will in fact help me get through my work. (obvs not the best mindset for physical health but we're talking ab mental productivity here).

a quiet house is best, noise-cancelling headphones are okay, loud conversations are not. instrumental music is best, my downloaded lyrical songs cause i have no wifi is okay, no music is worst. a lap blanket is best, a sweatshirt is okay, being cold is not.

basically, you have your ideal working conditions, but it's not always going to work like that. it helps me to acknowledge that even when its not perfect, i can take a smaller step to avoid utter discomfort.

Today was an unstructured Kimmer ‘n Dave day. A little of this, a little of that. Some chores. Some crafts. A bit of audio book. Some writing. A touch of charting.

Pretty sure we had breakfast ‘n lunch in there somewhere, too.

And dinner.

Then it was time for our walk.

I’m kinda bummed that I can’t show you what we saw in the photo above in exactly the way we saw it. The resolution. The colors. The feel of it. But also the unexpected moment when we realized where we were. Not that we were lost... we just didn’t know exactly where we were. So it was neat to look over directly at the former Safeco tower across the canal. It’s the tallest building touching the horizon to the right of the street down which we’re looking.

Moving on, about a half block later, we came across a vibrant bit of urban art. ;-)

We’ll probably be back to this street, there’s such lovely architecture here. Some of my favorite.

One of the loveliest things about it this night, however, were the trees.

At some point we decided to cut south early and came across this oldie...

Of course Kimmer was less impressed with the car and more struck by the open field to the left.

Not sure why... I think she was thinking it looked like overflow for the cemetary up ahead.

Gave her the willies.

Eventually we came across more sky which gave my photos another kind of look...

I actually have a beautiful photo of this exact scene below taken about a year ago with the sun just dipping below the Olympics and orange fire streaking upward and out. Which very much made the sticker to the left make the most sense:

What A Beautiful Hue.

Tonight, though, it was more a reminder that the day is over and the time’s come for “The Great” on Hulu.

If you haven’t started it yet yourself, it’s ten episodes of seriously messed up humor.

Here’s a taste:

We’re totally hooked, of course.

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Hey anon,

Lack of structure is a major trigger for stress, depression, and other issues. That’s actually one of the reasons that loss of jobs causes so much depression.

I’m currently unemployed, so I have the same issue with lack of structure. The best thing you can do for yourself is schedule things. It doesn’t matter what you’re scheduling, just create a schedule. Every week (I use Sundays), I print out a weekly calendar. I print them because when I write out plans they seem more “solid” and I’m more likely to carry through.

Personally, I schedule everything that needs to get done on Sunday nights. Therapy appointments, plans i’ve already made, and meal prep/eating times get accounted for. The night before, I’ll plan the next day in full. I account for as much time as possible. things like “play LoZ: Oracle of Seasons,” “Find a knitting pattern,” and “watch tv and do a jigsaw puzzle” have been on my schedule in the past couple of days. So has “look for an apartment.” Write some goals as well, like “contact a friend to get together” or “exercise for x minutes (walking, taking a fitness class, running, or looking for pokemon are all exercise).

It’s hard to get into a pattern, but it really does help. If you want to look at other resources, try looking up help for people who are unemployed; students are basically unemployed for the summer.

Good luck, anon! We’ll both get through this.