#unsolicited material

run away from new york and go straight back to london

thisainttherapy It’s coming. The second in the trilogy. 14.6.19. Or 6.14.19 in USA. Or June 14th for the rest of us. Mad excited to share this with you all. Been a labour of love. Artwork by the epic @becksboulter #unsolicitedmaterialnyc #electronic #noguitarsinsight

you and me won't care what you and me steal, that's ever so clear

there's a million conversations going on inside my head about the reasons why i should or shouldn't let you into bed and if my bed's our destination then there's things we've overlooked and the way you're looking at me now it's clear that we are fucked

thisainttherapy Someone once told me I have too many words in my songs.

I just got one 😓 I hate it and it makes me feel dirty. Why do guys do this?! Why do guys insist on sending that sort of thing? It's not okay! If I want a dick pic I will ask for one. Like what the fuck?!? God I hate guys sometimes. I know it's not every guy who does it but it's really just wrong. It's not okay. It's just not, if I want a picture of your penis I would have asked for one. I think guys assume that if they send a dick pic they'll get a nude or some shit, like no! No that is not okay! That is not okay! Whoever said that was okay lied to you! When I see a dick my first response is to vomit everywhere, not "oooo lemme take a snap of my vagina for this random guy online!!" Like that's not okay. That's not okay and that's never been okay. I feel so disgusting. Whenever I get an unsolicited dick pic it makes me feel violated. Like I question every action I did to deserve that level of disrespect. Did I lead them on? Did I act slutty? Did I say something to them that let them think I wanted that? When in reality I shouldn't be blaming myself. I didn't do or say anything sexual to this guy and he just sends that? Like no, that's not okay. Even if hypothetically I was acting sexual in text, unless I specifically ask for a penis pic then I don't want one! You shouldn't assume otherwise! Just because women are often perceived as prudish doesn't mean we are! Trust me when I say if a woman wants a dick pic she WILL ask for one. It's really not okay. Like it's just not, it's not okay to just do that. It's so wrong. The part that hurts me is hat I was sexually abused as a child and receiving dick pics, unsolicited!!! Makes me feel disgusting. It takes me back to that part of my life that I don't want to go back to. So please, think before you send an unsolicited dick pic. Especially if you barely know how fucked that person's life was.

Why is it whenever I add someone back on snap chat they instantly think it's an okay to be a complete sex crazed pervert. Like, I understand sex, I understand that humans are sexual beings. However, I don't appreciate random dick pics and guys trying to sext with me. Like I don't know you! I'm not into the sexting thing. A part of me was trying to come up with reasons for guys doing this by placing blame on myself. But just because someone is doing/wearing something provocative on snapchat doesn't mean that someone wants your sexually explicit pictures or texts. Unless I ask for that, then I don't want it. I will let you know when I want a pic of that variety. Until then please respect me as a human being. I've never had this problem on tumblr specifically so this is more of a ranty venty type post but still, it creeps me out and makes me feel dirty 😕