#unelegantly

I didn't mean that in a song he was addressing his audience/fans. It is clear that it's an intimate conversation. It's obvious. (It was a bit upsetting to be considered unintelligent, but at least you were kind about it.)

I've meant that in any relationship -romantic or friendship you make an effort to communicate your thoughts and feelings to a person thoroughly, to discuss things until they are understood. I've meant that in order for other person to understand who and what you are you communicate with words. And if there is miscommunication, you clear it up. So person's words, communication say a lot about a him. (Words of love or expressing that they care about you. Or if you promise something, whether your actions match your words or not. We try to figure out someone's character like that. At least I do. So if words are rude, brash, uncaring, or you see how they communicate with other people (are rude to a waiter for example) - you understand what kind of person you are dealing with. So his request not to judge him by the words he is saying seems a bit odd. So how do I judge you? Actions matter, yes, but words matter as well. You need to connect to a person. This is what I've meant.

English is not my first language, so I hope that I elaborated on my first question. Thank you, I hope I wasn't rude, I do come out as pretty blunt in English, grammatical structure in my language is different, so I'm sorry if it came out that way.

I didn’t call you unintelligent—both I and I think the other anon as well saw your response as an outlier, but your explanation clears things up about what you meant anyway.

As to what you are saying about the importance of words, that view is not always shared. Some people would say that you want to talk things to death, maybe. I know I’ve been told that. It’s not a matter of intelligence, not even emotional intelligence. It’s just a difference in people.

To: @doctorharuichi

From: @unelegantly

Characters: Kuramochi, Ryousuke, Miyuki, Chris, Haruichi

Summary: Kuramochi is a petty thief. He’s a pickpocket, a street hustler, is occasionally an accessory to cons that would carry the weight of grand larceny charges were he and Miyuki ever caught. He considers himself to be very good at what he does. It’s been a long time since he’s been outplayed, but when Kominato Ryousuke offers his own wallet back to him, with a thin smile on his lips and the words “How would you like a job?” rolling off his tongue, Kuramochi doesn’t know how to say no. He may not have any idea what kind of business he’s getting into, but one thing he does know: the excitement of finding out isn’t likely to disappoint.

ahhh perfect, this ask is a convenient place to post it

leaves their dirty clothes on the floor

probably neither of them, but kisho is definitely more meticulous in that sense. maybe zaiden leaves socks out every now and again, and kisho does her whole icy stare thing and makes him pick them up without saying a word.

forgets to run the dish washer

they’d be living in a mansion. no way do they need to do this.

pumps gas for the car

pretty sure they both have drivers, at least in acgr canon.

drives when they’re going somewhere

again, pretty sure they both have drivers, but i have this vague sense/recollection that zaiden enjoys driving? 

rearranges the furniture

i don't think that either of them would really want to, actually?

falls asleep with the TV on

zaiden.

gets to use the bathroom first

kisho, at zaiden's insistance ("ladies first", he says in the most mockingly polite tone, and kisho just. goes with it.)

decides the temperature for the ac/heater

kisho. this isn't even a question.

sets up holiday decorations

i actually wrote out a response saying it would be zaiden, but i’ve reconsidered: i think it’d be kisho. she likes tradition and stuff, right? not sure how zaiden feels about that stuff.

leaves the lights on

definitely zaiden. kisho finds this annoying.

uses the bathroom with the door open

also zaiden, although probably not often. kisho thinks it's super weird.

fixes the plumbing (or calls the plumber)

To: Kiriska

From: Lira

Message: The request I received was for cute T2, so I did my best to deliver super sweet Teshima and Aoyagi datefic, while taking the opportunity to play with and incorporate some T2-related trivia announced from signing events. I really enjoy the art my giftee produces, so I am especially delighted to present to them this gift, with the hope that it’ll bring them the same kind of happiness I feel looking at the art they create.