Mar 15, 2025
need like a constant reminder that's like
"Hey! just because you can't understand liking/believing/thinking something right now doesn't mean we never have, just means you are not one of us who thinks that!"
because I swear its crazy the amount someone will see something and think 'why am I so convinced of this? I don't think that at all. am I normally confused? I should change or get rid of everything to do with this.' only to realise that someone actually does believe/want/understand that, they just don't themselves.
#prompted by us seeing something about being trans before and getting really confused because apparently whoever was fronting wasn't trans#was so wildly confused because we've known we're trans for years but they just couldn't understand that because they didn't feel it at all#then we switched at some point and my gender is very obvious and clear to me and I'm firmly trans#happens so damn often about everything#games. friends. food. colours. attraction. clothing. aspects of our plurality. social media. aesthetics. interests. goals. everything.#don't like how any of this is worded but I don't know how to fix it rn.#we talk#understanding us
