#understand men

“[Feminism is] fighting for nothing but the empowerment of women, and using gender equality as a cover against counter argument. It’s disgusting.”  http://bit.ly/feminism10myths

If you don’t think Feminism is a woman’s rights group, it’s in the name. And if you check to see what feminists spend their money on – it’s there too. Follow the money. You can’t be an organization that fights for equality and only spends your money and voice focused on one gender. it’s just not truth. http://bit.ly/5issuesFeminism

Feminism doesn’t give a damn about male genital mutilation, or men in jails, or men not graduating college, or all the risks that men have been absorbing as females sore above them in wages, in job retention, male reproductive rights, in fair and just treatment under the law and in college degrees.

“Common men’s rights issues

Men are expected to be the providers and protectors of society.

On TV men are often seen as incompetent, misogynistic, brutish slobs with few redeeming qualities.

Men are forced to sign up for selective service while women do not.

Male genital mutilation is still considered ok and even medically necessary when it is not.

Men are often denied parental rights simply for being a man.

Men who are falsely accused of rape of domestic violence face ire even after proven innocent or a false accusation has been discovered. Little to no punishment is served by false accusers.

Men are sexually abused almost as often as women, domestic violence is also almost just as likely to happen to men as it is women, yet nobody talks about men being abused or sexually assaulted.

There are no safe places or resources available for men in abusive relationships.

When a man chooses not to be involved from the start, he’s considered a deadbeat, yet when a woman chooses to give a child up for adoption or not be involved, it is completely acceptable. (This has nothing to do with abortion)

Men get more severe punishments when charged for crimes.

Men are taught to hide their emotion and act like a man (strong, without pain). This often causes depression in men to go undiagnosed.

Feminists often argue that they are working on all these issues. But all I ever hear about is abortion, birth control, equal pay for women, teach men not to rape, and women should be able to walk around naked.

I never hear feminists demanding government sponsored centers for abused men. I never hear about feminist wanting to end male genital mutilation, ending selective service or making women do it as well, you never hear about justice for men who are falsly accused of rape or abuse.” http://bit.ly/feministsagainstMRAs

Feminists are liars who want you on their team …. ultimately to support women. And that’s okay, (not that they lie, but that they have their own group) because they are a woman’s group, but pretending to be more is a farce, and they should drop the lies that feminism is egalitarian & this sort of He-For-She campaign and go with what they know – fighting for women’s prosperity. Oh, and look at the facts feminists – you’ve gotten leaps and bounds away from the facts in your rallying the troops & in your women loving and men dominating agenda. The truth is women and children are the most protected humans on the planet. Celebrate your femininity, feminists. Don’t hate men because they are men. Don’t try and make men think like females. Try to understand men.

Read More …

https://www.youtube.com/user/HoneyBadgerRadio/videos

http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/male-reproductive-rights-female-non-responsibility/

http://anearformen.com/blog/why-you-cant-say-no-a-historical-perspective/

http://anearformen.com/blog/male-space-is-an-inside-job/

Understanding men has not been all that easy for women who want to date men. In fact women really need to understand how men work in order to understand the male psychology and mind. It is not unusual to hear ‘that’s not how men work’ from many ladies.

This is why you often hear that men and women think differently and ladies have to learn the way men think and what they secretly want.

This video below helps you to understand men. View it and get the basics of the male psychology and how to get inside their mind.

Women, did you know there are 12 things that you do that man tend to hate most of all? It’s true these things that women either know or don’t know that they do.

What are these 12 things that women should avoid? They are: 1. Not Sticking to Agreements When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is. 2. Keeping Their Feelings It’s stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds. 3. Try to Change Their Men Women often understand men but don’t agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely. 4. Mate Comparison Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable. 5. Belittling His Hobbies Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn’t like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than is and that’s not the message you should be sending. 6. Gossiping While it would seem to stroke the man’s ego, men don’t like women gossiping about them, whether it’s good or bad. It doesn’t matter. 7. Nagging Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it’s with good intentions. 8. Interruption Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it’s best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension between the both of you. 9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented Men like to get to the bottom of things so don’t get upset if they don’t want to talk for hours about a particular subject. 10. Beauty Conscious Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does. 11. Paranoia Men don’t like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn’t like the way you look, they wouldn’t be with you. 12. Insecure/Jealously Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much. If you don’t want to drive your man up the wall, then stay away from these 12 blundering mistakes and work on more positive outlet to keep your man.

Everybody knows that men and women are different. It is rightly said that the two genders come from two different planets. For that reason, it’s quite obvious that there are huge differences in the way they think. Women who have boyfriends must know this very well. Although every man is unique, there are certain things that every one of them would look for in their women. Rather than sitting and wondering what men want in a woman, speak out. Communication is the best way of doing that. Women make the mistake of assuming that their men know them very well but it’s very difficult to read anyone’s mind. Tell your man what you want from him. He will love your honesty.

Trust

A healthy relationship is possible if there is a lot of trust between the couple. Trust does not mean that he believes you will not cheat on him but on other matters too. He should trust you to that level that he comes to you for his emotional needs with a strong belief that you will not divulge his secret to anybody. If you are looking forward to a long-term relationship, you should understand that your partner should trust you. Avoid discussing his personal matters to your friends. It might be fun for you but somehow when he comes to know, it will present a very bad picture of you; he’ll also feel betrayed.

Be Lively and Effervescent 

Being lively and fun loving is what men want in a woman. What man would want a partner who is serious and boring all the time? Such women make their partner’s life boring too and men generally avoid these kinds of women. Be adventurous and outgoing. Show your partner that you love to enjoy your life to the fullest and it will make his life fun too. In fact, in the early stages of a relationship, it is a must. Only then will you be able to retain your man.

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