hello !! came from @/sunshinejihyun’s blog and oml I am in love :,) could i request a matchup please? I’m 5”4 and an ambivert (more on the introvert side). i play instruments, draw and write as hobbies. as for personality— my friends told me that I tend to be a people pleaser, motherly and determined. I’d rather have my friends talk about their problems than mine, and this leads to me giving a ton of advice to them. In short- I’m an INFJ. I’m now working to get into medical school. Thank you! 💞
Hello! It’s always nice to see a new face :) I hope you enjoy this!
The way you described yourself actually reminded me a lot of V, which is actually why I think you’d be perfect for Jumin.
Jumin is very methodical, he’s a logical person who feels the need to think about things objectively. While this is a huge strength when it comes to his job when it comes to making good deals and choices but it can cause a lot of trouble in his personal life and relationships.
You’re very motherly and more on the emotional side, which can be a great asset in relationships. You connect with people and care deeply. However sometimes this can be a problem, as important as it is to care for others it’s equally if not more important to be able to take care of yourself and be willing to talk about your problems with the people you care about. You and Jumin are opposites in that respect, but this is a prime example of opposites attract.
You encourage him to be more open and honest about his feelings. Keeping your arms open for him when he’s struggling or needs help. You help him open up and embrace his own emotions and not see them as weights pulling him down. And on the other hand Jumin helps you learn to take care of yourself and understand that you don’t always need to put others above yourself. That is isn’t selfish to care for yourself and ask for help when you need it. As he said, you can be greedy with him.
I’ve always interpreted Jumin as being fairly introverted. He’s a good businessman and good at making deals but at the end of the day he prefers to come home and drink a glass of wine with a good book. The both of you work well in this way, you both can go out and be social together but neither of you have any objections with just staying in and spending time together.
Despite how logical and cold he may look, Jumin is a lover of art. He has a great appreciation for music and literature. He loves hearing you play music as a way to unwind after a long day and often asks you to play for him when he isn’t feeling well or has had a bad day. He’ll also love to read anything you write, and if you’re feeling a lack of inspiration he’ll gladly pick up and take you anywhere in the world that could bring you inspiration. You’re never more beautiful to him than when you’re embracing your artistic side.
Jumin admires your dedication and perseverance. Deciding to go to Medical School is not an easy choice and not one anyone should take lightly. Even just getting in requires an almost inhuman amount of discipline and dedication. He really looks up to you and would help you in any way he can. Private tutor? Done, Fancy textbooks? Done, Special courses to prepare for exams? Done. He wants to help you in any way he can because he loves you that much and wants to help you achieve your dreams.
The two of you are very different but your strengths are his weaknesses and vice versa. You help each other, and also help yourselves at the same time.
