#twinflamedynamics

Long ago, I stopped believing in and expecting a meeting with a twin flame or a soulmate, unhealthily believing that I was only capable of attracting karmically heavy relationships and lessons. That wasn’t far from the truth, considering the state of my consciousness and my overall view, primarily of my own worth. ⚡

However, the Universe has mysterious ways, or rather, God's timing for everything, and knows exactly when and why to send us what is necessary for our deepest spiritual development.

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The contact with my twin flame was an incredibly powerful catalyst for my second spiritual awakening.

At the age of full 44 — so, we can say, later in life.

Why/how a "second awakening"?

Well, after my initial spiritual opening (awakening), I allowed myself to fall in spirit again, losing myself in the illusions of everyday "earthly things," from toxic social connections to even politics.

However, this contact, this twin soul, hurt and shook me so deeply that every delusion shattered instantly.

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In-stant-ly!

That pain brutally jolted me out of my sleep; there was no room for hesitation, but rather a moment in which I was born again, this time with unbreakable determination.

Of course, only when—instead of obsessive behavior and spinning in circles of swarming, unhealthy thoughts—I managed to completely open my momentarily hardened heart through healthy compassion for his suffering and the traumas that caused him to behave the way he did.

Therefore: not a sacrifice(!), not a denial of myself, but healthy compassion and unconditional love which, as such, did not imply "possession" of another being, i.e., my twin flame.

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Unlike my initial awakening, when all my blessings easily slipped through my fingers, this shock with the twin flame gave me the strength to lightning-fast set boundaries and, without a single word of explanation, cut off everything toxic in my environment—and there was plenty of it. Almost every relationship, from professional to allegedly "friendly" ones. With very few exceptions.

From that new, warrior energy of self-respect, I felt a momentary confusion before the truth of my mission.

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Although I felt called by the Creator Himself to take responsibility for my own frequency, the question I asked myself was whether giving up the twin flame dynamic in favor of a soulmate or being alone , diminishes my task in the planetary ascension, and that question touches the very essence of my spiritual evolution and the message, i.e., (re)cognition that I am trying to convey here.

Through my own experience, I realized that my purpose is not lost, but transformed into its purest and most efficient form.

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The purpose is in me, not in the partnership!

I realized that my task in the context of the planet's ascension is not tied to (one) specific person, no matter how much of a twin flame he might be, but to my own state of consciousness. The twin flame was a wake-up call, what the Universe sent as a final attempt to call me back to myself, but he is not the owner of my light!!!

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My purpose is spreading high vibration, maintaining that frequency, and if through a relationship with a soulmate I achieve my beautiful peace, stability, and creativity, I am actually contributing to the planet much more effectively than when I was in a state of constant unrest or emotional exhaustion through the twin flame dynamic.

The flame, my soul twin, was indeed the initial spark that ignited everything, but I am the one who (should) burn.

In this 3D reality, it most often happens that the dynamics with the flame are so intense that they completely stop action in the outside world, and everything revolves around that unhealthy relationship—at least in the beginning, when one or both of you haven't done anything for your own spiritual development.

Now I understand and know and enjoy the truth that a soulmate provides me with the support and stability necessary to truly dedicate myself to my talents: my writing, spiritual research, and helping others and the planet itself.

The dilemma has vanished because I now know that my purpose is not diminished by giving up an unhealthy relationship;

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It is now channeled in a more constructive way and, of course, all in the name of higher goals.

Instead of wasting energy on surviving emotional storms, I use it for creation.

⬇️ Lesson on free will and high vibration ⬇️

The Universe does not punish "giving up" on a difficult dynamic. On the contrary, recognizing one's own boundaries and choosing peace is a sign of the highest consciousness and self-love. If through painful contact with a twin flame we learn to protect our spiritual space, a large and very important part of the earthly task is already completed.

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Choosing harmony is proof of spiritual maturity and readiness to live our mission without unnecessary suffering, which is the only way we can fully realize it.

My conclusion on planetary contribution 🤗

THE IMPRINT OF (my) FREQUENCY 🌠

The peace I feel now is emitted into the collective field just as powerfully as any previous spiritual "feat," and the contribution to the world does not depend on who I walk through life with, but WHO I BECOME on that path.

💥Integration of experience - everything I learned in the "fire" of the previous relationship, all that strength and clarity, I now use as fuel for my work and maximum further development.

My purpose is my authentic light.💛👑

Choosing harmony instead of struggle is precisely that crucial step that allows us to finally step into our full, unbreakable strength and truly help the ascension of this planet.

The shock caused by the twin flame I used to build unbreakable discipline, and everything I learned in that conflict with illusion, I now use as an indescribable and growing creative power while residing in a state of blessing and harmony.

⚡ Final word: It is not true that only that relationship is fated and that we should hold onto it at any cost. A great delusion of many New Age schools and gurus is that suffering is proof of love. 😏😶

The role of a twin flame is very often—to (brutally) wake us up and force us to finally find God in ourselves (again).

If that task is finished, his role in our life is over, whether we are with him or not.

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Do not burn out in the fire waiting for someone who is not ready for spiritual work on themselves.

One should step out of that flame and become a Sun that shines independently.

Your peace is your greatest gift to the planet.

And when we truly learn to be a gift to the Universe and the Almighty, gifts are all we receive.

Then the lessons are finally at an end.

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