#tw-1987

Hey! So first of all it’s totally fine to be unsure of where your sexuality lies, it’s a spectrum and completely fluid, so you may have identified with one thing but find that later on another term fits you better! 

It could be completely possible that you are panromantic and asexual! Where you can feel romantic attraction to all genders but don’t necessarily feel any sexual attraction to them. Marriage and as you put it “solo adult pleasure” are not unanimous with sexual attraction, you don’t necessarily need to want sex with another person to want either one. And again (a)sexuality is on a spectrum, you may not need to fully identify as asexual or aromantic or what not. Don’t feel pressured to fit yourself into a single orientation. 

When I was discovering my sexuality, I spent a lot of time reading about other people’s experiences and watching coming out videos and so on. This is how I found experiences that I could relate to and it really helped me understand what I was feeling when I saw someone else put it into words. So look around! Go explore around asexuality and experiment with using the label if you’re comfortable with it. And if it makes you happy to use it, and identify as a-spec then do it! Being comfortable with yourself is the most important part. ^^

I got a sounding board, thank you, but it will be a Greek God/Hades Persephone AU ;)

And yeah, new chapter for Rain’s... working on it :D

L - Say something genuinely nice about a character who isn’t one of your faves. (Characters you’re neutral about are fair game, as are characters you merely dislike. Characters that you absolutely loathe with the fire of ten thousand suns are exempt, as there is no point in giving yourself an aneurysm over a character that you hate.) - (Thanks for that in the brackets, Blaine would have been hard). Okay... Hm. Right. Angel. Angel is willing to die for the right thing. That’s cool of him.

O - Choose a song at random. Which ship or character does it remind you of? - Immortals by Fall Out Boy. Coldflash

V - Which character do you relate to most? - Hm, that’s actually quite hard. Buffy, maybe. Problems with her mom (without the dying), fighting for myself and my friends against forces that are invisible to most people (depression).

http://archiveofourown.org/works/7722904

Awesome, thank you so much!

Thanks, but the move is still a while away ;)

Thank you!