#turbotxt

while sharing may be considered 'the norm', there are folk who are not comfortable with doing so. contrary to popular belief, nonsharers do not typically go out of their way to interact with or be rude toward people who share their f/o. i've seen a few people ignore a nonsharing wir selfshipper's boundary on their posts.

if you see the phrases nonsharing/doubles dni/selective on someone's post or profile regarding a character you're also with, respect the boundary and don't like/reblog! they're simply curating their online experience just as you would.

"oh but they don't own the character, i can like them too!" they're most likely aware and don't need to be told this ! making a nonsharer feel shame for not being comfortable sharing is not only rude, but borders on harassment. they may be nonsharing to cope with trauma/mental illness, may have had bad experiences with sharing folk in the past, etc.

if a user has not stated whether they're sharing, tread with kindness and be polite + understanding if they don't wish to gush about an f/o with you or have you reblog. blocking is not an act of aggression. thank you for reading! there's a carrd on selfshipping terms + etiquette i will link below. n_n ♥️

Manga: Perfect Days For Returning Home After School

Oh man I just found out what the 2025 limited edition travelers notebook looks like and now idk what to do

I was planning to get the cool toned browny brown notebook once im done with my current journal (which i predict will happen in 4 to 6 months), so i still have time to think.

The cool brown looks serious, professional and timeless. I'm also quite a serious person, and cool toned colors suit me.

But I also like red haha. (My first bullet journal was a black moleskine, my second was a bright red one) And it's not like the reddish travelers doesn't look nice, professional and timeless too. It's just a matter of personal taste, kinda like how i just dont like the camel brown travelers as much (not pictured here)

The reddish one is bright red on the inside, which, to be fair, i dont know if i like.

I was firmly set on getting the cool brown one until I saw the limited edition one.

But i don't know if I like the reddish color or if I'm being influenced by the fact that it's a limited edition!!

And the theme is love and so and so, which also warps my perception that the main difference is actuallly just the color.

Hmmmmmm what to do...

i dont wanna rely on strangers opinions but just in case anyone reading this wants to put their two cents in, here you go hehe: