Hey Studs and Butches? Take a breath, unclench your jaw, and relax you shouders. You don't have to be strong and tense and quiet all the time. You don't *have* to be those ever. You are a peron who can be both strong and weak. You deserve to be both quiet as you please or as noisy as you need. You don't deserve to keep it all bottle and carry the weight of the world. You have a community out there with love and a shoulder to cry on. My joy seeing at seeing my fellow butches in public is immeasurable and every second you breath is priceless. I love you. Be safe.














