Lately Iāve been having issues being passionate and intimate with my boyfriend. Iām super attracted to him but thereās this insecurity and negativity that just engulfs me whenever the time comes, and I just let my insecurities tear me away from him. I love him so much and I want to improve but I canāt seem to get this negativity off my back. I need help with restoring the love I had for myself and the time we have together in our intimate moments.
Hi Tala! Your kind support of the Trans Women of Color CollectiveĀ is very much appreciated (: Given your situation, I used the African American Tarot to ask several questions and get a sense of whether working the roots could make some positive change for your situation.
The Ten of Pentacles shows the ancestral spirits of Gabon culture, the Ombwiri. This cardĀ is telling you that the key to overcoming your insecurities and bringing more self-love and self-care in the ways that you need are through your own ancestors.Ā In the hoodoo working I can do for you, it will definitely be important to ask your ancestors for assistance in that process. If you feel comfortable doing so, I recommend praying to them and asking for help with giving yourself the self-care and feeling the self-worth that you deserve. Also, if you have close friends or family who can listen to how you feel and give you some positive affirmation or support, definitely consider reaching out to them sometime soon.
The King of Pentacles here represents your boyfriend as the legendary conqueror and King Tsoede of the Nupe people in Nigeria. He is believed to have founded the Nupe Kingdom, a very prosperous people. In this deck as the king of the Pentacles suit, he is an embodiment of stability, growth, and success. Lean into your partner as a strong and stable rock of support and care in your life, soak in the comfort and grounding that he brings to your life. Let yourself trust and lean into him, and his strength will be there to hold you up.
Finally, the Empress appeared when I asked about the outcome of doing a working for you toĀ help you with self-love and intimacy in these ways. In this deck, the Empress is represented by the Orisha of love, joy, and sexuality - the beautiful Oshun. As the owner of sweet waters, she is the epitome of the divine feminine, of love, sensuality, passion, and bliss. This is an extremely positive sign for us to go ahead with your working and that working the roots for you would have the intended effect for you and your situation - to feel confident and comfortable in yourself and these areas of your life.
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