whatโs a good identity for me? i am fine in my cis body but being cis is kinda boring :/ i need help!
First of all, I'd like to say that there's absolutely nothing wrong with being cis, and from what I can tell, you probably are.
If you think you're another gender and you're fine with the way your body looks, that's great! You can 100% be whatever gender you are. But there's more to it than just "being bored" with being cis.
If you don't think you're cis, you probably aren't! You would want to then explore terms that are similar to whatever you're feeling in terms of your gender!
But you can't choose your gender, it's just something that you are. Boy, girl, nonbinary, xenogender, whatever, it's just what you are. Dysphoria or no dysphoria makes no difference, but it's still not a choice.
