#transneutrality

This is Jim Sinclair, at the time going by Toby. They are a neuter, asexual and intersex enban, and a seminal autism activist. They have been an educator on transneutral nonbinary identity, non-binary transition, the anti binarist position and intersex issues for decades. This is an interview with them from the 1980s, talking about their experience as a non-binary/genderqueer person at a time where the community was just coming together.

"In a 1997 introduction to the Intersex Society of North America, Sinclair wrote, "I remain openly and proudly neuter, both physically and socially."

I've seen this post a handful of times before, but now I've been thinkin.

Just like they said, there is a lack of androgynous counterparts if binary gendered words that 1) are not umbrella terms or 2) are not derived from nonbinary/enby and that honestly sucks.

So, I am suggesting a couple specific to nonbinary folks wording that were and were not originally proposed by me, in regards of man/woman and boy/girl.

For the androgynous for man/woman, specifically for people who are not willin to use enban/enben there is ferhman and ferhmen. I specifically like this one because the origin of the “ferh” part comes from old english “feorh” that can mean soul, living being or person.

And this one, that I specifically like because I kinda came up with the idea, is the androgynous for boy/girl: fer! It's short and it's one syllable with combines with the shortness of both girl and boy, somethin that ticked me off with enby as a counterpart. And I specifically think the plural is cute! Feries! It even makes a crescent order of plurals; boys (4 letters), girls (5 letters) and feries (6 letters).

I love Trans Men

I love Nonbinary people

I love Trans Fems

I love Trans Mascs

I love Trans Neutrals

I love Intersex Trans people of any kind

You know who I don't love?

Transandrophobes Transmisogynists Outersexism and Intersexism

Quit trying to divide Already marginalized Community's while we're all being hatecrimed

Adgender: transitioning towards a genderness. Meant to be slightly more inclusive than ‘transfemininity’ and ‘transmasculinity’. 

To be used as admasculine, adfeminine and adneutral. Instead of transneutral, cisfeminine, cismasculine, cisneutral, transfeminine or transmasculine. For people not feeling included in trans- or cis-. Useful for demigender, polygender, intersex and genderfluid people. Read more.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish colour.

No such thing as a girly or boyish mental illness.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish outfit.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish hormone.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish scent.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish ethnicity.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish accent.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish body type.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish bedroom.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish sex.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish subject.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish location.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish emotion.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish race.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish foodstuff.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish personality.

No such thing as a girly or a boyish lifestyle.