i’m a singlet and i feel like i’ll get flamed for supporting my friends and called an ableist but i also don’t want to lie and put neutral?? but i don’t want to omit my stance because it might stress people out

or am i just overthinking?

I also hate how a lot of editblr is so aggresively anti-endo and anti-goodfaith so much. The mere zeptosecond an endo and/or bi/pan/omni lesbian/gay interacts with an editblr account, they get publicly SHAMED and badmouthed. If you are uncomfy with them, just block and move on, why (vague)post about them constantly like "NOOOO AN ENDO (or) BI/PAN/OMNI LESBIAN/GAY INTERACTED WITH ME I HATE THIS AND I HATE THEM SO MUCH YOU ARE NOT REAL FUCK OFF"? No need to get so heated up about someone you are uncomfortable with interacting with you, especially when they just want something like a request, or are saying that they like their edits.

I ALSO hate how most editblr users also hate neu-endos, especially if they are singlets who believe they don't have much of a say in syscourse because they aren't plural themselves. I get what they say, I also agree (as a pro-endo) that singlets should support systems and trauma victims, but you can still do that while not participating in discourse, y'know? And besides, discourse may also be uncomfortable for certain people, for whatever reason, so why drag them into it if they are just NOT comfortable with it? Why won't you respect their decisions of not participating in discourse instead of saying that they should be participating in syscourse and be anti-endo because you think it's one of the only ways to support systems and trauma victims, and dragging them into it while they don't want it? "I don't participate in syscourse because I'm a singlet and I'm uncomforta-" "SO YOU HATE TRAUMATIZED PEOPLE?" God, I hate this so much it's unreal.

Editblr needs to stop harassing and badmouthing people just because of their stances on discourse. It's irrelevant in a community meant to share edits of characters in my opinion. They might have different stances than you, but they are still people. They have feelings just like you, so think before you speak of them.

This is why I'm learning to make edits for myself, because I'm gonna get FLAMED for merely supporting endos (hell, even I'm questioning if I'm also an endo myself) and being an m-spec mono myself if I go and request on any editblr blog. I'm tired, boss.

Also, can I claim this anon if it's not taken? -🌟

why is syscourse such a prominent thing in the editblr community? i honestly feel like people are overreacting. they find out someone is pro or EVEN NEU endo and go like "oh my god thats so insane how could you ever not hate on endos!!" like bro.

im a singlet, and i feel like it's not my place to participate in syscourse so i just... never bothered to learn about plurality but i saw someone say that if you're not willing to learn about plurality and understand why endosystems are "bad" you are the worst being ever and that made me feel really bad 😭

also. isnt DID under-researched or something..? how do people know that you can only be considered plural once you've gone through trauma??? well maybe i shouldnt be saying that since i did state that i didnt bother learning about DID

it's kind of crazy that im confessing THIS to a confession blog about EDITBLR. anyways sorry for the long rant 🥀 i don't feel safe saying this anywhere else

- anon 🔇 (hi im new here...)

a lesboy gaybian turigirl is not going to kill you. you are worrying about what labels people use when there are people dying and losing their basic human rights in FIRST WORLD COUNTRIES. do better and stop worrying about harmless queers existing; their confusing complexity isn't an issue, we're not taken seriously either way. don't blame your peers

endogenic people usually don't relate or fit in the DSM-5 criteria for "diagnosable systems". this is not an issue since plurality is shamefully under-researched and people are refused medical care for reasons such as racism, [inter]sexism, ableism (as in, thinking an autistic individual is "just creative" and has imaginary friends), and the like. people choosing not to align themselves with the psych sector is GOOD. it inherently creates a barrier that spekas against the malpractice in there— if you got a diagnosis (official or self diagnosis), great for you! not everyone will be able to get that for a plethora of reasons, and you should respect that.

sharing your relatability to a character with someone else is not gonna kill you. please stop witch-hunting and harrassing people over fictional characters. they dont care. maybe you do, but youre still doing something that is purely harmful and helps no one aside your sense of justice. quit it and grow the fuck up

stop speaking over people of colour. asian people (from any of the areas), indigenous people, black people, hispanic people, latines (not the white latines ofc), mixed people— god damn, even white people with closed cultures... stop speaking over them. stop using names that you think sound cool but you dont know the meaning of. stop using people's real life languages as decoration for your anime blog. have some sense, get a grip, and stop acting so damn entitled to what you don't own. "my jp friend gifted me a name!!"— no, they allowed you to use it, because name gifting is a specifically indigenous practice. "my jp friend permissed me a name!!"— its still weird you take it like starved man into a meal. search up YOUR OWN roots. dig up YOUR culture. make yourself original within your existence, don't take fromcothers

stop using shi/hir if you're perisex. please. for the love of god. these have been used to fetishize intersex caricatures online for too long. stop speaking over intersex people. we're already systematically mutilated and erased by force. if someone says transfemmasc isn't intersex exclusive, LISTEN to them. because it really isnt. the only intersex exclusive things are intersexness in of itself, the herm slur, and shi/hir pronouns. please stop being so damn entitled. Please.

anyways thats all. when applicable, get over yourselves. be humble or you will be humbled by force throughout life

also, editblr is very toxic in general (outside of just being anti-endo) and we need to grow up