#topic: syscourse

also, editblr is very toxic in general (outside of just being anti-endo) and we need to grow up

a lesboy gaybian turigirl is not going to kill you. you are worrying about what labels people use when there are people dying and losing their basic human rights in FIRST WORLD COUNTRIES. do better and stop worrying about harmless queers existing; their confusing complexity isn't an issue, we're not taken seriously either way. don't blame your peers

endogenic people usually don't relate or fit in the DSM-5 criteria for "diagnosable systems". this is not an issue since plurality is shamefully under-researched and people are refused medical care for reasons such as racism, [inter]sexism, ableism (as in, thinking an autistic individual is "just creative" and has imaginary friends), and the like. people choosing not to align themselves with the psych sector is GOOD. it inherently creates a barrier that spekas against the malpractice in there— if you got a diagnosis (official or self diagnosis), great for you! not everyone will be able to get that for a plethora of reasons, and you should respect that.

sharing your relatability to a character with someone else is not gonna kill you. please stop witch-hunting and harrassing people over fictional characters. they dont care. maybe you do, but youre still doing something that is purely harmful and helps no one aside your sense of justice. quit it and grow the fuck up

stop speaking over people of colour. asian people (from any of the areas), indigenous people, black people, hispanic people, latines (not the white latines ofc), mixed people— god damn, even white people with closed cultures... stop speaking over them. stop using names that you think sound cool but you dont know the meaning of. stop using people's real life languages as decoration for your anime blog. have some sense, get a grip, and stop acting so damn entitled to what you don't own. "my jp friend gifted me a name!!"— no, they allowed you to use it, because name gifting is a specifically indigenous practice. "my jp friend permissed me a name!!"— its still weird you take it like starved man into a meal. search up YOUR OWN roots. dig up YOUR culture. make yourself original within your existence, don't take fromcothers

stop using shi/hir if you're perisex. please. for the love of god. these have been used to fetishize intersex caricatures online for too long. stop speaking over intersex people. we're already systematically mutilated and erased by force. if someone says transfemmasc isn't intersex exclusive, LISTEN to them. because it really isnt. the only intersex exclusive things are intersexness in of itself, the herm slur, and shi/hir pronouns. please stop being so damn entitled. Please.

anyways thats all. when applicable, get over yourselves. be humble or you will be humbled by force throughout life

I also hate how a lot of editblr is so aggresively anti-endo and anti-goodfaith so much. The mere zeptosecond an endo and/or bi/pan/omni lesbian/gay interacts with an editblr account, they get publicly SHAMED and badmouthed. If you are uncomfy with them, just block and move on, why (vague)post about them constantly like "NOOOO AN ENDO (or) BI/PAN/OMNI LESBIAN/GAY INTERACTED WITH ME I HATE THIS AND I HATE THEM SO MUCH YOU ARE NOT REAL FUCK OFF"? No need to get so heated up about someone you are uncomfortable with interacting with you, especially when they just want something like a request, or are saying that they like their edits.

I ALSO hate how most editblr users also hate neu-endos, especially if they are singlets who believe they don't have much of a say in syscourse because they aren't plural themselves. I get what they say, I also agree (as a pro-endo) that singlets should support systems and trauma victims, but you can still do that while not participating in discourse, y'know? And besides, discourse may also be uncomfortable for certain people, for whatever reason, so why drag them into it if they are just NOT comfortable with it? Why won't you respect their decisions of not participating in discourse instead of saying that they should be participating in syscourse and be anti-endo because you think it's one of the only ways to support systems and trauma victims, and dragging them into it while they don't want it? "I don't participate in syscourse because I'm a singlet and I'm uncomforta-" "SO YOU HATE TRAUMATIZED PEOPLE?" God, I hate this so much it's unreal.

Editblr needs to stop harassing and badmouthing people just because of their stances on discourse. It's irrelevant in a community meant to share edits of characters in my opinion. They might have different stances than you, but they are still people. They have feelings just like you, so think before you speak of them.

This is why I'm learning to make edits for myself, because I'm gonna get FLAMED for merely supporting endos (hell, even I'm questioning if I'm also an endo myself) and being an m-spec mono myself if I go and request on any editblr blog. I'm tired, boss.

Also, can I claim this anon if it's not taken? -🌟

> come out as pro/neu endo

> get backlash for it

> find people who share the same opinion with you and keep yourself away from those who judge people for being harassed for stances

> know now that you don't need to fit a mold to be in a community, and that you can be yourself and you don't need to hide that to express yourself online just to not end up on a name list

— 🪽

I hate editblr, I absolutely hate EVERYONE in that community. I hate that editblr is getting toxic each day and making useless callout posts instead of posting silly graphics. Isn't editblr about having a fun time editing as a hobby? Now some people are complaining about it being a chore as well??? And the community is getting problematic by itself, and minors are using nsfw medias as their theme which causes troubles.

And those editblr people act like endos will KILL THEM. like it's not a big deal if someone's an endo system or pro / neu endo or not. JUST BLOCK THEM INSTEAD OF FUCKING YAPPING ABOUT HOW THEY'RE RUINING SYSCOURSE FOR FUCKING SAKES. IT. IS. NOT. THAT. HARD.