#thoughtsofareadhead

For these past couple of days I’ve been noticing a lot of weird changes happening in my life, really sometimes I can even say their unexplainable… One day I fall head over heels in love with a guy and the other day anything stupid goes wrong and we stop talking. Why do I call these changes weird? Because my life can be described as a pattern, the same situation happens in the same exact order. It’s like constantly hitting repeat to the same movie over and over again! But just like that, unexpectedly something happens to space things up a bit… This one person barges in and completely changes how things work in the blink of an eye. Like a fairytale he/she rescues you out of your worst depression ever to improve your life with nothing but happiness. But yes, you guessed it! There is a catch to this… And most of the cases the Prince charming is only everything you dreamt of for only a couple of hours and if you’re lucky, maybe you’ll get a day. That is precisely what’s going on with me. This brings me to the question I want to ask all you guys (whether as a guy or a girl no discrimination is intended by the usage of this word) why does this happen so often when it comes to dating?

  I mean I just don’t understand the logic! Why be sweet and the beginning of the relationship or friendship and then switch all of a sudden??! This is my whole logic on this situation… Keeping it 100 with a person from gate, makes your life much easier to begin with. Like my dad always says: “Honesty is the best policy”. I’m sure if you take that route the rest of your journey will be as hectic. On the flipside, there are people this switch up on attitudes because they find themselves getting too attached sure of the second party and they can be either not ready for a relationship or just don’t want one period… If that’s the case I’m really finding it hard to comprehend why people just don’t weigh their options instead of ASSUMING the outcome of this situation. The world would be such a better place if people would just keep it honest at all times and with stop assuming or predicting the outcome of situations.

Well what I take from this if I were you? Well, I’m not saying that in every situation it’s easy to keep it honest with someone but you have to keep in mind, there are several ways to say different things through people in numerous situations… I’m not trying to preach and my underwear so to speak but a lot of experience I can tell you in many cases your word choice can make you or break so… In any situation, sit and think about your word choice before you approach anyone but always remember to keep it honest with yourself and with others. That’s all part of the truthful to yourself and others.