Jan 6, 2023
yes to time
when asked to consider a difficult question, it’s always best to ask for more time to think, even if you think you know the answer. especially if the other party mentions it. you may think it’s not a big deal AT THE TIME, but you don’t really know how you’ll feel until you properly process & digest the situation. it’s totally reasonable to take the time & it’ll help you avoid agreeing to something one will regret.
totally did the opposite of this even though it crossed my mind & had to have an even more uncomfortable conversation, but ultimately very grateful and relieved by where we landed. plus really learned this lesson.
