#thetimba

All true!

When they first start sleeping together, Cullen is always the big spoon - because Nevena is quite a bit smaller than he is. Every morning, the positions are reversed and Cullen is the little spoon, with Nevena trying to be the big spoon, with one arm and leg flung over him. 

I totally think Cullen loves being the little spoon, that sense of warmth and closeness would definitely be something he would enjoy and embrace wholeheartedly. And Nevena giving neck kisses as they fall asleep or have dozy conversations? Absolutely. 

I try to operate on the basis that people want to help, and that is a very good and kind thing. They don’t have to care, they don’t need to try and help someone in some small way, but they try anyway, and that’s to be encouraged.

Sometimes the information is wrong or just doesn’t work for me, but however mildly frustrating it is for me to have to repeat myself, it’s infinitely preferable to dealing with people who don’t care and would step over someone suffering, or worse, dig the boot in. 

I get a lot of…bad messages, on tumblr. From people who are willing to show the world just how cruel they can be because I don’t allow for anon messages. So they’re bold in their hatred for a sick person, wishing they would “shut up or die already” because in their mind I either deserve this or I talk about it too much and I’m not their idea of how a sick person should be (whatever that means)…and I tell them sincerely I am sorry for whatever they are going through that prompts them to act as such, and wish them well. Sometimes I’ll get a hearty “fuck you cunt” in return and that’s my cue to hit the block button. Other times it opens up a dialogue that other person has been needing and they will usually apologize and move on. But some of them stay, and I get to watch them learn, and change, and understand what it means to take light into dark places.

I can still lose the rag sometimes and need to vent, but I always try not to lash out directly at that person unless their rhetoric is truly abhorrent. Sometimes I’ll say, you know your message really hurt me, but I thought about it and realized you must be hurting worse to want to do something like that to another person, so whatever you’re going through I hope you find peace.

Smut is rarely boring. YOUR smut NEVER is. (I mean, I would be super happy to read it for you and tell you winkwinknudgenudge)

Wait, no. I fail to see a problem with this. wHY YOU CHANGE?

idk. I haven’t completely decided yet. :p

I guess I just worry that it would be a bit boring. I felt it got a bit dull in Behind the Throne. ^^;;; 

What fake relationship AU?