#the voiddemon

the sexualization:

aren't yall supposed to be working on that precious fucking google docky? the one you're making with lily orchard's blessing, in collaboration with lolishos and incest fetishizers, in order to continue to justify trying to get an abuse victim killed? yknow, the one where you drag a bunch of people dealing with genuine real world crises that take precedent over giving your petulant asses attention?

like. yall have got to find fucking hobbies. you do not actually give a fuck, you JUST want to feel smart by overliteraturizing a fucking shadow on the cave wall.

where's the doc.

where's the fucking doc.

it's been a fucking month.

Truly, unfortunately, if you want to care for a victim instead of just about them, you have to defang their abuser by NOT fighting them. In social work, it is entirely against protocol, not just for company liability or something but for the safety of the most vulnerable involved, victim and their real support.

The thing about victim advocacy is that it involves holding your tongue. Law requires you to only act on evidence of harm. But advocacy requires you to handle that evidence with tact and virtue.

Even if you have circumstancial evidence of abuse, spending time hurling that evidence at the accused rather than reparating and securing the victim is nuts. The desire to fight back at abusers as a victim's advocate specifically is insane.

And so I am not a victim's advocate. It's too hard for me. It requires self control I do not currently possess. My point is very few people online are real victim's advocates. That is fucking fine. That is a morally okay fact.

But the deliberate insinuation that you are whrn you are not is just as dangerous as an abuser if not moreso. If an abuser is close doors and crafty and still active as an abuser and you are shouting from the rooftops, here's the perpetrator by name and station, you are bringing a dangerous level of visibility to the victim.

I am not an advocate for victims specifically. I am another bitch with a tumblr blog and so are you.

"We didn't accuse you but we implicated you at every opportunity." Do you want a medal?

Also remember my post, "Terrible People and Mutual Aid?" How my whole entry into the isff bs is the idea that mutual aid is for everybody and that is that not a totally uncondemnatory ethical parameter?

Mutual aid being for every body is anticarceral damage mitigation. If a person is fed or housed well, they are less likely to stay a bigot or abuser. So seeing mutual aid bloggers, (including lone socialists and communists) platforming abusive propaganda and cult psychological rhetoric was quite literally the opposite of the mission.

Mutual aid is not the platforming of the speech or sentiments every recipient but the distribution of aid that would, as a side effect and hope, soften them against patriarchal, capitalist, and white supremacist abuse cycles. Mutual aid is charity and safe use.

So as well as these fuckers lying about not using my name up and down the accusation of Raf, they call do distrust of my mutual aid angle. I am not nice. Im kind/honest to most and mean as fuck to abusers. But I'm not gonna sell out dead names and locations, either.

How do you assume none of the rest of us touched and traded mutual aid for Eden? Answer me why only the two niggas here carry the full weight of the inciting accusation??????????????????????????

This so tacitly anti victim, everything they say or do. You had a platform and mutual aid community big enough to get your suicidal friend safe before any of this.