#thatsnotmyproblem

A healthy relationship is one in which Boundaries can be set that allow for two or more people to understand that they do not serve as problem fixers for one another. Rather, they have the Mutual respect of one another to the extent in which they do not expect for one to fix the problem of the other.

You could easily make the argument that a healthy relationship is that in which all parties take responsibility for their problems. That is not to mean that others in the relationship can not offer support, guidance, or even a resolution from time to time.

COVERUP

I just wanna know why they aren't/can't/won't/were told not to hold hands. (Though you can apply whichever verb you think is right in that sentence.)

thatsnotmyproblem replied to your post: Fuck a duck. Wanna jump on the pessimist train now?? :P That was a joke.

Yes, I know why. Dun dun dun…

You should be sleeping. That's what you know.

kswhateverspace replied to your post: kswhateverspace replied to your post: So...

It’s all just one big mess.

Ahhhhh Sara, I wish I had known your birthday was today. I just got back on my computer and I had an Oprah video ready to go. I hope you like Oprah. I wanted something to get up before your birthday ends!

Today was Sara's birthday. You should all go tell her happy birthday even though it's almost over. 

She provides gifs and the music of Glee every week and I'm so thankful she does that. So thankful. She's super nice and such an awesome person. Such an amazing heart.