#that was... wow

And not in the way where if you don't like her, you must not have media literacy, I'm not even an Ashley fan myself, but what someone says about her says a lot.

Hey, Anon!

I see your point, but I'd go even further and say that Ash is a litmus test for misogyny in the fandom.

People are very particular about their hatred of her, and the way they "criticize" her usually reveals a lot about them.

I also find it incredibly funny that the "Ashley-critical" people on this site always fit the same profile:

FemShep is the canon Shep

Garrusmancer

"I just hate this character because of her abrasive personality, that's all!"

the brains people are not so much your forte. you are more at home with thoughts, ideas, hobbies, skills. as such, you probably have to learn how to work well with others--but once you do, hey, it has its moments. while you are treasured for your ability to solve problems, people also have this unique love of novelty. when you break from your schedule, when you say something no one is expecting--that's novel. you are as curious and lovable as the subjects you study. you are family. this place is not the same without your witty comments and wry observations. you definitely feel more comfortable when someone needs a straightforward answer than a shoulder to cry on, but it's not impossible to give both. know that your family loves you for more than that, though, and will (usually) remember to respect your boundaries.