Yes I am new here, if that's the case can you rec some posts or metas that are pro-romantic Reylo in IX? I've spent a lot of time reading posts from mainstream websites but not a lot from actual shippers. But I ship it, I guess I'm trying to control my expectations. It would be nice to balance out my POV with some material from shippers and some material from non-shippers
I’m sorry to say, but your first mistake is reading posts from mainstream websites. it’s an unfortunate phenomenon with SW that mainstream websites are always promoting either the most off-base, irrelevant and/or batshit theories or else jumping in 3 years late with theories we’ve been talking about for ages (case in point: an article was published recently that posits that Ben is the Skywalker in TROS, as if this is groundbreaking information and not something we were all told...4 years ago, in TFA).
and I’m not going to link to metas because at this point, metas aren’t needed. I suggest just tuning out the noise and going back and watching the movies with your own common sense, because they more than speak for themselves. and if that’s not enough there’s things like:
Rian calling the hand touch scene the closest to a sex scene we’ll get in a SW movie
Rian giggling delightedly when someone says they’re a reylo fan and saying ‘it’s all in the movie’
Adam asking if Ben has ever kissed a girl before in preparation for his scenes with Rey
JJ’s TFA commentary
the fact that the intimate and emotional Force bond is set up to still be present, even if latent for a while, after Snoke’s death and into TROS
Daisy saying in one of the VF articles that Rey’s Force sensitivity still sets her apart a bit from the Resistance (read: Ben is the only one who can understand that very foundational and defining part of her)
Adam saying this in the TROS Vanity Fair article (that’s explicitly romance-coded language--no one talks about ‘pursuing’ platonic relationships lmao):















