I dont know why you are friends with telekineticwind. Dont get me wrong she is a nice girl but she acts so immature in this hunhan/xiuhan fanwar. She gets a message and is instantly tagged in the xiuhan tag bashing on the ship while I know you have gotten a lot of hatemail saying hunhan is the true otp and bashing on xiuhan (I kind of stalk u sorry ·///·) and you never ever bashed on hunhan, you just put the anon in its place and no more. But she uses whatever excuse to try and put xiuhan down.
Well I must admit that I don't like how she reacts towards all those anons for the reasons you say, instead of just putting the anon in its place she bash on the ship that has nothing to do with it. Its not the ship's fault that some of the shippers are immature. Its the same that happens with exo, some people hate on them because the fandom and I dont understand because the group is not the fans. Hate on the fans but not the idols.
But I also understand that not everyone see the things like I see them. While I prefer to highlight my ship instead of putting the others ships down there are some people that try to put other ships down so them ship can be more important. Personally, I think that my way of acting is more mature towards the problem but it's also true that I'm older than Kathe and even if it's only 2 years in 2 years you can learn a lot of things.
Furthermore, I know that Kathe hates xiuhan (hate as "I hate it and if I see xiuhan I get angry and I don't even ship them as brotp" kind of hate) while I'm just not interested in hunhan. They are not important enough in my life to even spare them a glance so I don't waste my time trying to make them look fake because meeeeehhh.
And I think that's even worse than hate because if you have time to hate on them its because they are more important in your life than what you want to admit, but if you just ignore everything they are less than nothing lol
Either way the shipping thing has nothing to do with our friendship, we just kind of avoid this topic and talk about other things. Shipping is just for fun and only a part of ourselves. Even tho the shipping part doesn't match the others do, and that's why makes our friendship so strongÂ