A question to help you get less embarrassed
Uhhhh, do you have a preferred kink? Like I know you're a masochist but is there anything you like more? Or a certain kind of pain you like?
itās hard to answer because I have no actual experiences to go off of, but letās seeā¦
I think I would prefer blunt/aching pain over sharp pain. Hitting/spanking, hair pulling, hard grabbing. That kind of stuff? Donāt think Iād like cut-y stuff at all. Itās hard to know without trying though
other stuffā¦. pet play obviously. that doesnāt need to be pointed out. Degradation but only when itās masked with sweetness. I donāt think Iād like if someone sounded genuinely mean. I donāt think it counts as a kink but I like being told what to do, I like feeling embarrassed with the fluttery heart and hot face. Denial/edging sounds appealing. And I like overstimulation
thereās lots of things I like in fiction/fantasy, but I canāt say for sure what I actually like rn