#tamakisuoh

Tamaki Suoh

shy. 

this man loves shy people. 

if not shy, then quiet. 

but no matter- 

if you’re shy, he can play up his princely role and be your knight in shining armor!

but you still gotta give him a run for his money

(not literally, of course - he’d be willing to drop thousands for you if you even so much as glanced at something you wanted)

if you aren’t willing to push through his stuff, he won’t want to be with you

he wants support, no disregarding it

he doesn’t get much from the people he lives with, so if his significant other isn’t going to support him, expect to be dropped

otherwise, please support this boy.

that, and if his grandma doesn’t love you, expect to be kept a secret

if his dad loves you, though, then you’ve got a new father figure along with a boyfriend

intelligence isn’t necessary, but common sense might be

especially if you’re a commoner

with the way he can be, he needs someone to tie him down a bit

someone that understands how things work

(i’m really just putting this out there now, but every person here loved something about haruhi that would be universal no matter if it was or wasn’t haruhi)

it definitely helps if you can open him up to a new culture, too

he is a curious person, so i don’t doubt that he’d love to hear about any customs that my differ from his

especially if you have a certain religion or ethnicity

speaking if which, i do think that he would try to adjust his mannerisms to adjust to you and your family’s mannerisms

he (surprisingly) doesn’t come off as a player, so i do think that the way he handles himself reflects his ideal plan

whatever happens in the future does, but he wants to marry you.

he truly does. 

i also don’t think he would care too much about gender (after a bit) 

he means well, really

but he may be a little rough with pronouns and preferences in the beginning

so patience is also key here :)

that also applies to kids and family members that he may so happen to meet

very friendly to them, and very sweet in general

the way that you would react around children would probably be a very important thing, too

he didn’t see his mother for the most formative years in his life and had never truly felt comforted even though his dad tried his damnedest to be there for him

but you? 

if you have a little niece that you see every so often and he sees her, guess what? 

he’s gonna be all over her

but you? 

you would probably have to handle the chi;ld with care

same thing applies to siblings, adoptive or not

younger than you? 

perfect, if you end up taking them out to lunch because your parent(s)/legel guardian(s) weren’t able to hang out with you that day, tamaki will be f a w n i n g

seriously

it brings him comfort and makes him more comfortable in his choice

and he also just solidified his love for you 

he will be proposing to you as soon as the time for the moment comes

that is a fact, and one that you can’t deny

and one more thing: adventurous

it’s another thing that he finds intriguing

especially if you love hiking

he will pay for the tickets to go hiking on a trail in the US

or to visit a forest in Korea or China

let’s also not forget the many places he could take you to see in France

seriously, he would love it

and he may try to profit off it for the host club

(in those cases, expect kyoya to run the show since you will probably have to drag him away for a few to get some alone time with him) 

and when it comes to arguments and discrepancies between the two of you, please listen

you don’t have to agree, which he will be forever a drama queen about, but please

let him get his side off, and tell him what went wrong

articulate what is going on what problem came up, and work with him to find the middle ground and be happy for the night

i also find that he would be one to give you a good night kiss even if you got into it earlier in the night

seriously

so, in conclusion, act like haruhi

(to an extent lol) 

Kyoya Ootori

debate

if you can debate with him, you’ve got him 

especially if you can debate with him on certain topics

that, in theory, shows your understanding of complex ideas

which presents your intelligence to him

he finds intelligence attractive

that and if you can keep a cool head

he has to constantly handle big situation after big situation due to tamaki and the club’s antics, so a level head would be much appreciated.

there’s a small portion of me that just knows

k n o w s

that if you didn’t even get along with tamaki in the slightest, you’d likely be ignored

like, if you find him annoying, that’s fine

kyoya can find him annoying, too

but if you absolutely hate his guts, you are likely not going to go along too well with him

the two of them are an unconventional team so to tear them apart is to topple the japanese high school equivalent of royalty

that would drive him up a wall, but i can imagine that since they are a team

that you would be dragged into club activities whether or not you are a member

otherwise, please talk with him

kyoya, though driven, is also extremely unaware of his health (in a way that he ignores it)

so he needs someone to pull him back and get him to realize his worth outside of grades and gaining his father’s approval

seriously

bring him down and get him to take a break sometimes. 

he needs it.

badly

(bonus points if you can get him to sleep before 5 am!)

one more thing, too:

his family. 

get along with his siblings, especially his sister

she has been one of the few people to actually stay with him and respect him

so she is the key here

if she likes you, you know that you have managed to catch his attention

in all honesty, too

your appearance isn’t gonna matter much to him, as long as you can make yourself look presentable when the time calls

i will warn you though

he isn’t the best with emotions, so he may be tempted to buy copious amounts of gifts to compensate for hi slack of understanding

which could lead to arguments

debates are normal, those are safe

but arguments with his might get a little bit...on the threatening side? 

idk how to phrase it, really

but i highly doubt that he is gonna fall back, especially if you cave first

he isn’t the most emotionally unintelligent, really

he’s just a little self-focused

which is why an ability to stand ground would be good here

he’s not gonna be like tamaki and refuse to go to bed angry, no

he’d probably let it stew overnight and then fix it the next day (if it’s petty enough) 

but no matter

just state your point, allow him to state his, and discuss

level-headed, concise, and understanding are the keys here

especially in a fight

(or go to his sister)

(she could tear into him) 

(and it may get a laugh out of him depending on the situation) 

(just play your cards well) 

anyways, carry your head well is the gist here

intelligence is what will catch him, but your personality is what will catch him next

again, he isn’t picky, more so just self-focused

so be calm and patient, and be willing to see the lines and read between them if needed

(that happens to be his toxic trait, but whatever-)

(and no, if any questions are to come up, he will not be capable of doing what his evil twin did in episode 8) 

Takashi “Mori” Morinozuka

i’m gonna say it

mans is most definitely a tough read

like really

but there is one thing that i just k n o w he loves

he loves to be the protector

really, just looking at the way that he approaches situations with honey and haruhi proves this

even the rest of the club at times, in all honesty

so he’d like someone he can protect

(not at all times, tho) 

(he is well aware of the lengths you’d go to in order to make sure that you walk out of a situation in pristine condition) 

but still-

at least just let him help you 

his love language is very obviously acts of service, so anyone that is willing to allow him to do so would be great

now we get to honey-senpai

ik it’s a common thread amongst everyone here, but this (next to the twins) would be the most prominent

honey’s judgement hasn’t often been wrong

and he’s really welcoming, so if you tip off honey’s radar imagine yourself cut from the list in general

seriously

you absolutely, positively, truly have to get along with mori’s precious cousin

(and do note, kissing ass gets you nowhere in this scenario)

that, and if you get along with kids in general

i see him as the kind of guy that would really like kids, despite the fact that some can get super scared of him

he’s really a sweet guy, so he needs someone sweet with him

like, if you have a younger sibling or extended family member that is like

a toddler, let’s say

and you can play with them and make them happy, even generally caring for them

yeah, that will make him happy

really happy

i also seem his as the type to like someone a little more...quiet

not like a bookworm (strictly, at least)

but like, someone that is more introverted 

and can also hold their own in classes

not genius level, but hopefully you get the gist

if you could hold a joke and have a sense of humor, too

think a personality type similar to the “girl-next-door” archetype without the amount of modernized twists and gender specification

speaking of modernization

i feel like he’d like someone who’s a little more traditional

not like “stay at home and do [blank]” traditional, though

like...

values family traditions kind

really, dude’s a family man and he makes it very evident 

i also think he would re4ally like someone who can knock people down a few pegs when the time calls for it

physically or verbally, doesn’t matter to him

a little fire is always nice

anyways- 

when it comes to arguments, expect him to be patient

he will get mad at times, and that’s understandable

but he’s another one that doesn’t want to go to bed angry 

he really wants to get to the root of the problem before it can get any worse, but if it means settling for the night and sleeping on opposite sides of the bed, well

that’s fine with him

he really just wants someone to discuss the issue with

that is, opposed to someone who wants to fuel the flames and create more problems

so please, someone open-minded and willing to listen would be great

i also feel like he’d like someone who would really like hugs, i mean look at him- 

all in all, though, yeah-

to be reasonable and understanding 

while also being carefree and gentle?

yeah, marriage material right there

he really just wants to hold you close to him

(and he wants to please you and treat you like royalty, but hey-) 

but he wouldalso really respect someone who sees him as more than honey-senpai’s carrier or that one hot guy that won’t talk 

really, someone that can treat him like a person 

Hikaru Hitachiin

so there might be a theme between the twins

that being the fact that they would like someone that can have fun and focus on the good side of life

and that rings true for hikaru, really

but unlike kaoru, he isn’t going to be the type to ignore that at most times

(particularly upon first meeting)

if you can take a joke, that’s makes you attractive

if you can tag along with the twins’ pranks?

even more so

(again, particularly to hikaru)

willing to clown anyone else just because you want to?

yep, check that off the list as well

really if you can let loose, he will be drawn to you for it

otherwise, though, what he wants isn’t going to be the most ideal for him

it may take kaoru to point it out, possibly even mori or honey, but he needs someone to bring him down

he can get a little egotistical when something continually goes his way

but when that is immediately dashed, he gets mad

not really violent, rather passive-aggressive and insulting

he knows, when willing to acknowledge it especially, that he needs someone to calm him

call him out on what he’s done, tell him that it isn’t right.

remind him that the way that he is acting is only going to cause more harm than good

help him acknowledge where he needs help

help him develop himself and himself alone

help him come to terms with others, too

really, he needs someone that can take a joke, make a joke, and knows when to avoid joking altogether

(that may seem like a stretch to him, though)

another stipulation:

you HAVE TO get along with kaoru

HAVE TO.

there is no debate here, really

i remind you of being able to aid him in pranking others with him and kaoru

but that also means that he has to trust you enough to tell you anything about him

only kaoru and a select few others know how he really feels, and how he really processes everything, and how he really grew up and the feelings that came with it

so he also HAS TO trust you

and kaoru respecting you and liking you is the first step

in regards to appearance, though, i do feel like he would be a little more particular to it

he would budge, it believe that all of the host club members definitely have their moments but mean well

but i also do think that your appearance may be the first thing to grab his attention

i’m thinking he’d be drawn more to people that look similar to the models that his mom uses in fashion ad campaigns

to be specific, those from active wear ads

i don’t know why, but i feel like he’d like someone who looks like they take care of themself

but really, while that may be what draws his attention, it would come down to your personality

(i really felt the need to place this here especially)

(no clue why but i just get the feeling that the twins would be way more judgemental from the get-go) 

to make it clear, though, he may get picky and a little nasty, but he means well

which makes it even weirder when it comes to arguments

there will be days where he will die on his hill of choice

he’ll refuse to listen, refuse to acknowledge you even

possibly even go to kaoru and proceed to make a fool of you without telling him the whole truth

(only for kaoru to pull him back)

he would be likely to do what kyoya might here

going to bed angry would definitely be something that he may do, but i also feel that he’d have enough awareness to settle it just a little bit

which leads to the other side

he can also be very gentle about it

(i have to draw another parallel to tamaki here)

this side is one in which he would be likely to at the very least ease thing sdown enough to sleep in the same bed

i see him as the type of hold you close to him, cheek to chest

so i find that he would be sleeping in the same bed, but on the complete other side and his back facing you

settled just enough to calm the situation

only then would he be willing to settle the situation the next morning

but in general, he isn’t going to pay much attention to you if you don’t have a sense of humor

really, he just wants to relax with someone that can make him feel safe and comfortable

someone that can bring out the best in him and give him space when needed

as well as help him become the best version of himself without it being strictly ‘hikaru and kaoru’ 

Kaoru Hitachiin

gonna say it again, definitely think kaoru would go for someone with a sense of humor

but he’d also want them to draw the line when necessary

and not be solely focused on humor and pranks

it’s all fair, really, but he already sees enough of the shallow image that he and his brother put on for the attendees of the club

so to only put your attention onto that would definitely make him

well...

kinda hate you

he is definitely more emotionally aware than hikaru is, so he’d be the one to step back and see you for more

your humor would be the signal

your personality would be the habit

and your reactions to him would solidify his interest in you

to be patient is to grab his attention

and intelligent

unlike hikaru, i imagine that he would be more interested in things that are the complete opposite of what he puts on for show

he doesn’t care about how other girls react to him and only that, he’d also care about appreciation for his achievements

which is also what he would seek in a partner

someone who can appreciate him, as well as appreciate themselves

that also applies to grades

he finds someone smart to be attractive

but that is still only something small

he would definitely be the one to pay less attention to physical appearance, too

he would still be picky 

(sadly) 

but he would also be quicker to ignore that and put more of his focus onto your mind, reactions, and the tiny little things that you do in your everyday life

but i do find that he would focus on your appearance in a different manner

like, appreciating the little acne scars and moles on your face

if you have a port-wine stain, too

that would intrigue him

even something as simple as a little mark that looks similar to one would draw his attention

that and any modifications and stuff like your eyebrows

i also feel that he’d be drawn to someone who is a bit thicker

like, muscular, heavier, has a build to suit that, etc.

stuff like that

really just any body that has a bit more space on it

and i do think he would really like body modifications

idk why i just..do

he seems like he’d like a slight divide in appearance in general, honestly

otherwise he is most definitely going to pay attention to how you help others

as much as he loves hikaru, the way he handles things (as well as a majority of the host club too, tbh) is really not great

not great in the slightest

handling things with utmost patience but also trying to take into account the person you’re helping just...

it leaves him flustered.

in arguments, too, that would be important

he can have a bit of a fiery temper at times, so to have someone that can bring him down would be great

he’d also appreciate it if his partner would be the type to tackle the issue before it gets out of hand

like, he wouldn’t want to go to bed angry but he wouldn’t be above it 

(at least for one night)

he wants to rest with you, he wants to cuddle you in bed and give you a goodnight kiss on the cheek

he wants to be gentle and sweet with you

but again, he and hikaru do have some similarities that aren’t too great in hindsight

so to combat that, someone that can handle things like these in a composed manner would be great 

seriously

kaoru really wants to spoon with you and sleep well and wake up to your sleepy eyes in the morning, so please- 

no, really tho

he wants someone that can separate him from his brother and treat him as his own person

someone he can trust with his worst secrets and most awful insecurities and worries

someone who can treat him like a king but also knows when to get him to step down and draw the line