#tallent

The personal development speaker Jim Rohn said: “Spend more time on working for yourself than you do on your job”, in this way, you become a more valuable person.

A person with more prominent and refined skills is a person who is capable of solving the problems that other people cannot solve on their own.

This is a person who thinks about around corners and comes up with ideas and concepts that one has never thought before. That’s how one can become truly valuable to himself and others. And that’s a journey to become the best hypnotist.

The key fundamental of learning hypnosis is not only about producing yourself but about elevating yourself in the world, and about equipping yourself with a skill-set that is valuable to other people.

Nobody can learn hypnosis for you. Mastering it is a desire that is born from the inner drive, that is to be the best in all the terms.

That’s the common trait, the top achievers have. They don’t necessarily start as the best in their field. But they have an inner drive to be best in one they can be.

Hypnosis tools, trainers and technology are plentiful. What is not, are the individuals who will stop at nothing to become the best.

I hate it when people call someone talented. I hate it when they call me talented. It feels like they're pouring all my hardwork down the drain.

I've always preferred the term skilled.

I remember when I wrote about my mountain climb and asked my friend to proofread it before I posted it out here and she said: You write pretty good. I wish I was that talented.

That actually broke my heart a bit. We had been together in college from the first day. And she didn't see me write in the entire 1st year. It's now, in 2nd year, after the holidays that I write something. If I would have been talented, I would be popping out poems from the very beginning. Right?

What I'm trying to say here is; NO!!! I'm not talented. I read day and night to be able to form decent sentences. Everybody was looking all chubby after the holidays and I was out here, loosing 3 kgs weight with dark circles under my eyes because I barely slept more than 3-4 hours because I was working my ass off.

Whenever I do my calculations really fast and people say that I'm talented or am born with calculating abilities, I wish I could scream how wrong they are. I was terrible at math just like almost everyone. I worked my ass off at UCMAS for 2 years ( actually 2.5 years coz I dropped out for 6 months).

I didn't give up even when it got super boring. I didn't give up when I couldn't keep up with my schedule. I didn't do just enough. I practiced like a lunatic at home. Even my parents were tired reading out random numbers from books so that I could calculate them. But I did not stop even there. That is what made me good at math. That is what made me better than almost everyone in the UCMAS class.

Not everyone successful is talented.

Not everyone good at something is talented.

There's a high chance they worked day and night when you were busy binge watching game of thrones for the 8th time. (I love game of thrones but what I mean is that I didn't rewatch it and did other things as well)

Ed Sheeran is not talented. If you listen to a clip of him before he was this good, then you'll realize, he was pretty horrible. But he worked hard to be good at it.

Shakira's teacher practically kicked her out of the group saying she sounded like a goat. Look where she's now.

Katy Perry was pretty bad at singing before she was serious about it and there are many people out there who will back me up here, who have been with her from the very beginning. And now she is huge, inspiring everyone with her music.

Halsey has admitted of crying for hours because she couldn't think of any lyrics. But she is doing pretty amazing for a person who is new in the industry, having a no.1 album.

Narendra Modi is not a talented politician. He sold tea at railway stations. He worked hard even in situations that are dangerous enough to scare the shit out of people. But he didn't give up. And look at him now, one of the greatest politicians and leaders in the world.

I can go on and on for pages with examples.

But what I want to say in this entire ramblings is that not everyone (or as I like to say noone) is talented.

What separates the achiever from the rest is their hardwork.

Their vision.

Their all nighters.

Their perseverance.

Their attitude of not giving up when things got hard.

And that is what keeps me going.

Yeah I'm not a talented singer. But I practice till I feel that my vocal cords might tear off.

Yeah, I'm not a talented writer. But I read till I fear I will pass out if I don't get some sleep.

Yeah, I'm not a talented person in business. But I read about it and talk to people in this field inspite of my social anxiety.

At the end of the day, that is what matters.

Performing good.

Giving a performance that satisfies your own self.

Going to bed at the end of the day with a smile that you couldn't have worked more even if you wished.

So don't give up if you're not talented. You can always be skilled.

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