LOL! I was thinking about the marriage coat convo less than two hours ago! What are the chances?
😂 Omg! Clearly we're on some kind of wavelength lmaooo
Rereading those posts definitely sent me down a thought rabbit hole of how the tradition COULD have started. And so, of course, I got to thinking about Selkies (cuz I absolutely love them) and how "ooh! wouldn't that be interesting if they were convergent evolution mermaids but adapted to a different biome?" and that the tradition therein came about as a way of either honoring those stories or was common enough at one point to have just bled into the culture through osmosis.
Then my brain took a full ADHD turn and I started cackling imagining that the "gift giving" ritual for useful tools could be related to the mating rituals of PENGUINS and I got caught up in the hilarity of the boys giving the person they like a bunch of shiny rocks (or coins, you know... from a coin collection) jssfghgh.
You know just perfectly normal things around here lolol











