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you know how it is

#butscag touyre tramsfem....///.#yeah well my system is NOT and i love those guys so im not stopping them #scagposting #systempost #<-i only mentioned them in the tags but fuck you

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So, we've become more familiar with the fullest range of things that can fall under the "persecutor" role, and we've concluded that a good number of our headmates might fit it. This would mostly be in the form of wanting to do (rarely actually doing) self-destructive or aggressive things.

We looked in the persecutor tags, but there was one insight we couldn't find: namely the reason of why a system or headmate would choose to use the persecutor role, especially in a system where a "role" is usually thought of as something beneficial.

In the case of my system, we do have something of a concept of "headmate who wants to do things that are bad for us", but we don't consider that a role but rather I guess a personality trait, or maybe an archetype. Most of the things we consider "roles" (e.g. caretaker, manager, socializer, etc.) are things that we consider beneficial to the system in some way.

Meanwhile, we don't fully understand why it would be considered beneficial to the system to have a persecutor, outside of the kind who could be regarded as a "misguided protector", which I don't think ours would.

To be clear, I don't think persecutors or any headmate needs to be "beneficial" to be allowed to exist in a system. However, if my system is going to label something in the system as a role (as opposed to a behavior, a trait, or something else), we tend to conceptualize a "role" as something that is beneficial.

If anybody has any insight, we would be interested in hearing.

#perzoreth.op #textpost #pluralgang #endo safe #systempost #persecutor #system persecutor

Sometimes, fictives will absolutely refuse to source separate even slightly or even admit that there's a difference despite being completely different from their source character. So, you'll just have to give them a little mind sit down and be like, "Honey, I'm sorry, but you are not more canon than canon," while they pout like a five year old.

#systempost #posts by red :)#this post is about Manfred btw.#he logically knows that he isn't his source but constantly feels like he IS and that canon is wrong about his personality and behavior.#which is probably why he takes anyone's opinions on his source character (even inside his own source) like an opinion on HIM himself #cause they're the same to him‚ even though his exomemories of how he acted are completely different to the canon behavior #he literally feels more true than what's true.

Soother who just. Makes music instead of talking. Okay. Works somehow tho

#systempost #the shards - collective #I think we may have monstergami in here somewhere and they just don't talk. forgotten theme only.

Okay I think someone here is gonna make their own sideblog soon. He cannot be contained.

#systempost #the shards - collective #edit: nevermind he chickened out

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Love when we wonder why we're a system and then we immediately half-dissociate through an entire day. Like hmmm I wonder why The Disassociator has the disassociation problem. Guess we'll never know.

#systempost #the shards - collective

Realizing now that though we definitely were plural pre-therapy (considering we've had conversations between different entities within our own head since as long as we can remember), IFS therapy seems to have kinda changed up HOW we're plural. Like before we were super blurry all the time and pretty much everyone was in control at once doing a kind of “collective effort to seem normal” thing, and while nowadays we still are like that very often, sometimes we can actually tell when someone's getting more of a foothold or who's saying what. Intriguing.

#systempost #gonna make a new tag for when we're too blurry to tell who's talking btw. uhhh what should it be. ehhh fuck it #the shards - collective #anyway a lot of us actually kinda feel more comfortable being parts rather than like alters and headmates.#cause it feels like alters and headmates and stuff implies a level of control and separation that (as an extremely blurry system)#we don't exactly experience. or at least not often.#we're all kinda so in sync from the blurriness that our attempts to come off and “live” as a singlet are actually pretty smooth #but that might be cause no one can tell who tf is doing what in the body at any given moment. all we know is who is yapping in our brain.